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Thread: Stealth mode - is there a way to discretely game a girl?

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    Default Stealth mode - is there a way to discretely game a girl?

    So I'm sure we all have situations where we are with a girl or a family member, and we see a girl we want to game but feel like it would be inappropriate to do so in front of the person with us, or the girl we want to game is with family, or perhaps a male who looks like a possible date, etc. So in these situations is there a way to discretely game the person?

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    Default Re: Stealth mode?

    Do it anyway. If you have good game, it doesn't sound like "I want sex", more like "we could talk", which is never inappropriate. Moreover, hitting on someone is something everyone respect, guys and girls. The worst that can happen to you is someone being impressed by the size of your balls, how is that a bad thing?

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    Default Re: Stealth mode?

    not if another girl I'm dating is standing there, or my family, or the girl I'm hitting on's boyfriend or family

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    Default Re: Stealth mode?

    if your gf or your bf is there, it's something else entirely

    if it's your/her friends or your/her family, go for it: you just want to talk after all, what's the harm?

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    Default Re: Stealth mode?

    assumptions the observers make about my intentions.

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    SexualSorcerer, Thanks for posting this question. When I first got serious about sarging on a regular basis, I didn't want to limit myself it to Friday / Saturday night at the bars and clubs with my wingmen. We see beautiful women in all sorts of contexts.

    If you are out with your wingman, it should be easy to excuse yourself to make an approach regardless of what you guys are doing.

    If you are out with your female friends or family, you tell them, "(I think) I know that girl from (activity/location)." Then you excuse yourself and engage using a situational opener. If you get blown out, you come back and say, "(I guess) She wasn't who I thought she was." If you number-close, you say, "I hadn't seen her in a while." or nothing. Then you change the topic like nothing really happened.

    If she is with her male friends or boyfriend, it's not different than making an approach at the club. After you've opened and transitions, you ask, "So how does everyone know each other?" Some openers are more relaxed than others: situational/opinion. My experience has been that the guy is usually just a friend and enjoys the interaction as much as her if you can dhv.

    However, even with direct openers, I've had guys come up and use direct openers on my female friends while we are out. It's flattering to her and me. We smile and politely disengage. If you can think on your feet, you won't be getting into any fights for approaching.

    Other ideas for opening her: "Don't I know you from somewhere." "Didn't we work at such-and-such place." "Haven't I seen you on TV (reality TV show or such-and-such commercial)?"

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    Default Re: Stealth mode - is there a way to discretely game a girl?

    very good advice thank you so much

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    Default Re: Stealth mode - is there a way to discretely game a girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by SexualSorcerer333 View Post
    very good advice thank you so much
    Glad to be able to help. I think that it's so important to make approaches on a regular basis. The guy who got me into this is a theory master, but he's struggling now that I'm pushing him out into the field. Eric Disco has a great blog called Approach Anxiety. I realized that I was never going to improve at cold approach pick-up unless I was consistently getting into set by making cold approaches on a regular basis.

    Between the three-second rule and a few personal challenges, my approach anxiety has faded. There are still some sets that I have trouble approaching, but mostly the challenge is turning more of my approaches into opens. My next challenge could be getting good at opening in all of the above scenarios.

    Great to see you are embracing this journey of self-improvement with such relish! Stealth mode deploy!

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    Default Re: Stealth mode - is there a way to discretely game a girl?

    Hey Sexual Sorcerer,
    Let's be real you are most likely not going to K close if the girl you are dating is in front of your target. But let me give you some advice on what happened in two of my situations. In my first situation this girl wanted me bad, but all her friends were with her and I couldn't isolate without them knowing I was hooking up with her (her friends wanted to cock block me because they didn't like me). Anyways so when she had to leave, I volunteered to take her back to her car, and when I did I K closed. Her friends then just thought I was a nice guy by taking her back. In situation #2 I was with this girl and her bestfriend. I wanted the girl, but her bestfriend was being a massive cock block. So all I did was dhv, play cocky funny, and N close. This was recent so now I'm going to ask her to hang out and close. Anyways just Kino, cocky funny, and DHV. You can do all of this under the radar my friend. Then just N close saying you wanna hang out with her (based on some similar interest) and then you can K close later when you hang out with her. Hope that helps
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    Default Re: Stealth mode - is there a way to discretely game a girl?

    Yea, I definately am not at the level of K closing (i am guessing this means sex) on a first date, and am actually not really interested in sleeping with women I just met. Call me more old fashioned, but its actually because I am a shaman and cant mix my energy with just anyone, I need to be properly screening women first. Anyways I understand the logistics you just laid out totally. And I can definately do that, and its not unlike the method I have been using, I guess I just need some more practice, and strengthening of frame, and making my responses more natural and reflexive through said practice.

    There is actually this really amazing world famous tantric temple in my city that I am a member and initiate of. The girls who go there are some of the most beautiful south indian women. Amazing dark skin, always dressed in sari's and looking super hot and gorgeous. I would love to pick up one of them but it would be A) super inappropriate if anyone thought that was what I was doing (and you would need a super strong frame because I am being dead serious when I say that the people who go there who are highly spiritually attained can feel/see the energies, and percieve the information around them, including thoughts. I have had numerous guys I talk to there be in a conversation with me and start answering questions I was about to ask them before I ask them, or bring up things having to do with my frame of reference that they couldnt possibly know. They are easy going people luckily, because they are so enlightened, but if they thought I was trying to seduce all sorts of young women there I dont think that would be a great experience for me hahahaha. But of course if my frame was strong enough and this stuff was second nature to me, and I wasnt thinking to myself "Ok what do I have to do next to make sure I pick her up..." I'm sure its possible) But also it would be B) super hard because though the temple is in america, and the girls there are part of american culture and understand what dating is, they are also part of indian culture, much more, and at this temple men and women are generally supposed to maintain sober behaviors and not engage in romantic touching.

    So it would be a very tricky and highly specialized situation in which to conduct seduction and attain a Number Close, and then escalate from there. But being with such a woman would be a very ultimate experience. And I am for the most part an accepted member of this community I am not like a fish out of water just because I am white, I have been going there for years, but I assume they would be questioning my intentions. So how would any of you men out there who are much more masterful at this than I am calibrate to such a situation? I know its highly specific, but I imagine that you could easily transfer this frame of reference to others that would seem more common, like being at a church service, a funeral, a support group, who knows! The point is that they come up, and being such intense, ultimate, special situations, they can oftentimes be the place where you would meet a very ultimate and special person who you can have an intense relationship with....It just requires a more specialized approach. One I cant exactly fathom yet with my incomplete knowledge of the venusian arts. But I know that it can work, and probably be awesome!

    Lol Does anyone have an answer for that? Thanks ahead of time for your thoughts, I understand that this is probably a complicated one...


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