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Thread: Mikalichov tested for you: The Simultaneous Double Date

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    Default Mikalichov tested for you: The Simultaneous Double Date

    There was this girl I flirted with heavily last year (let's call her GirlA), who recently reopened me, and invited me on a date.

    Then, there was this other girl I met last week and exchanged contacts with (GirlB), and with who I was reaching this phase of "take her to a date now or shut the frak up forever"

    So I figured: why the hell not? The idea was too beautiful not to pursue.

    Yup, I took a girl to a date with another girl. That went surprisingly well.

    I figured it would either be a disaster, or... a huge disaster. But actually no. Never underestimate the power of preselection. I got preselection with GirlA ("he seriously brought a girl he just met to a date? she thinks she can steal him?") and with GirlB ("Wait, she is quite hot, and she invited him? who the fark is this guy?")

    And then, catfight not the "naked wrestling in the mud", more a fight of snappy remarks, bitchy body language, hitting on the Mikalichov competition and all that. That was awesome. And the more they were trying to hit on me, the more it triggered preselection and jealousy in the other, like a preselection resonance effect: infinite value!

    I'm not going to tell you guys that it's the best idea, and you should bring girls to your dates all the time. But I get two things from this:

    - When a girl invites you to a "it looks a lot like a date, but let's say it's not a date", don't hesitate to bring another girl. you get a date setting, + all this preselection echo resonance thing

    - When you have an idea that might turn out really bad or really good: frak the hell, just try it I now have a story that will make me laugh for a looong time

    (and the end of the story: seems I'm going toward a LTR with GirlB, which was my favorite all along yay)

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    Default Re: Mikalichov tested for you: The Simultaneous Double Date

    Woooooowww next on my fun list))

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    Default Re: Mikalichov tested for you: The Simultaneous Double Date

    So GirlA (friend) invited you, You invited GirlB (acquaintance).

    I wonder~ who did most of the talking the whole time? and what were the conversations like? Did you game any of them? Who did you neg the most? Did you try building rapport with GirlA? Did you ever Isolate one from the other? Who did you Kino the most?
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    Default Re: Mikalichov tested for you: The Simultaneous Double Date

    Quote Originally Posted by FLo KT View Post
    So GirlA (friend) invited you, You invited GirlB (acquaintance).

    I wonder~ who did most of the talking the whole time? and what were the conversations like? Did you game any of them? Who did you neg the most? Did you try building rapport with GirlA? Did you ever Isolate one from the other? Who did you Kino the most?
    I'm very curious about these questions as well.

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    Default Re: Mikalichov tested for you: The Simultaneous Double Date

    Quote Originally Posted by FLo KT View Post
    I wonder~ who did most of the talking the whole time?
    So I went there with GirlB, and after meeting saying hi to GirlA and chatting a bit, isolated GirlB and spent most time with her, then went back to GirlA for some chatting. I did most of the talking when with GirlB, and me and GirlA when with both

    Quote Originally Posted by FLo KT View Post
    and what were the conversations like?
    Convo with GirlB was rapport oriented. With GirlA and GirlB, it was really... catfight-oriented, like "oh, you're really small", "waow, your hair are all messed up, is it the rain?", to the point of GirlA saying to a friend in my back, but loud enough for me to hear: "she is really ugly haha", and the friend being like "no, she's kinda cute, what's wrong with you?"

    Quote Originally Posted by FLo KT View Post
    Did you game any of them?
    Gamed both of them

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    Who did you neg the most?
    GirlA, as she is a lot more "I love myself and I know all the guys love me too" and has good game; GirlB is more shy, and has bad game, so Negged her just a bit

    Quote Originally Posted by FLo KT View Post
    Did you try building rapport with GirlA?
    Already have plenty of rapport with her, so just a tiny bit

    Quote Originally Posted by FLo KT View Post
    Did you ever Isolate one from the other?
    Yup, as said above, isolated GirlB for some time (she was my main target, I'm not that interested in GirlA anymore, so I basically used her), and actually took her to an instadate afterwards (went to meet other people in a pub to get some drinks)

    Quote Originally Posted by FLo KT View Post
    Who did you Kino the most?
    Tough one, I kino a lot, so... I actually notice right from the start that GirlA was resistant to kino (moved away my "hello hug"), so had to break her, and kino'd her quite heavily, enough to be at the "holding hands/hugging" phase at the end of the thing. But I did more kino on the long term with GirlB, since she was more opened to it, like I could casually put my end on her inside thigh when we were speaking (yup, inside thigh, you can do anything when you do it casually enough)

    And GirlB just invited me to a movie date... Girls with no game are cute haha

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    Default Re: Mikalichov tested for you: The Simultaneous Double Date

    AWESOME! I like the Kino part the best

    So I know it depends on the girl, but if she resists kino does that mean you should kino her MORE or LESS? I know you already had lots of rapport with GirlA so I imagine that kino-ing her MORE was the way to go. And since GirlB was already open to it... yeah HAHA


    Lot's of Lesson's Learned for myself JUST by reading this. Great FR!
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    Default Re: Mikalichov tested for you: The Simultaneous Double Date

    Well, in that situation, I re-escalate: find what level of Kino she is comfortable with, and then escalate from there.

    So it's not "more kino" or "less kino", just different kino


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