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    Default Very strange sh1t test...looking for how to beat it.

    So, I'm not sure where to post this but I'm hoping this section is ok?

    I had a very strange situation I was in last night and wanted to get your opinion.

    Stage: Bar, 100 - 150 people, dancefloor was semi-crowded.

    I ended up making one of those dancing circles and started a bar game I learned in college where you put an empty beer bottle in the middle of the circle and everyone basically just takes turns dancing around the bottle trying not to knock it over. Might sound lame on here but I promise, we had about 70% of the dancefloor playing...best part is...EVERYONE knew that I was the center of the game.

    As I digress, as I was trying to clear a circle I asked a 3-set if they could move out of the way (I was nice and confident when asking) and they did without argument..I told them they could play the game as well if they wanted, we just needed space.

    Anyways, I wait about 3 minutes before actually starting the game (because I wanted to wait for the next song) and the cutest girl (IMO) from the 3-set came up to me and said something like "when are we playing this game you keep talking about!?" (Def an ioi)...we have light chit chat and I can't remember EXACTLY how it got brought up or what was exactly said but she could tell I was trying to hit on her (she wasn't turned off by any means though because I was confident and having a good time...she wanted to be a part of that). So, the possible (?) Sh1t Test she gave me was telling me she was too old for me (probably late 20's...I'm 21) and went on to tell me she was going to HELP me find a pretty girl...hahah basically like she was offering to Wing for me.

    She pointed out like 3 different girls for me to go and approach but all I wanted was her...

    MY QUESTION: Was this a sh1t test and how should I have handled it properly?

    I was thinking this morning I should have said something like, "Ew! Girls are gross" when she told me I was too old for her but again, I'm looking for good suggestions.

    THANK YOU!!

    P.S. - For those of you dying in suspense wondering how the game went...it was a HUGE FARKING success...try it out sometime!

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    Default Re: Very strange sh1t test...looking for how to beat it.

    Yeah, it was a test. Although, you DID handle it well by not trying to convince her she wasn't too old.

    But you also could have taken the route of saying, (with a smile) "Well maybe you are... but you might have a chance of talking me into making an exception..."
    Or something to that effect.



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    Default Re: Very strange sh1t test...looking for how to beat it.

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    Yeah, it was a test. Although, you DID handle it well by not trying to convince her she wasn't too old.

    But you also could have taken the route of saying, (with a smile) "Well maybe you are... but you might have a chance of talking me into making an exception..."
    Or something to that effect.

    Haha...uhhh...I may have tried convincing her she wasn't too old...oops hahah

    I will say, now I know how to handle the situation better though with you're advice...but hey, I'm learning...and to not make ANY mistakes in the game, you have to make A LOT of mistakes haha

    Any other suggestions guys?

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    Default Re: Very strange sh1t test...looking for how to beat it.

    The best way to pass a shit test is to reframe it. Usually into a frame where she is hitting on you. Maybe something like...

    "Very sweet of you to think I needed help. Oh and very clever on trying to distract me from who I'm really interested in." If she asks who then play with it and don't answer. This is off the top of my head.

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    Default Re: Very strange sh1t test...looking for how to beat it.

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    The best way to pass a Sh1t Test is to reframe it. Usually into a frame where she is hitting on you. Maybe something like...

    "Very sweet of you to think I needed help. Oh and very clever on trying to distract me from who I'm really interested in." If she asks who then play with it and don't answer. This is off the top of my head.

    Awesome Idea! Thanks...I'm not sure it would have worked perfectly though because I was on the dancefloor and it was hella loud..but now I know what to do!
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    Default Re: Very strange sh1t test...looking for how to beat it.

    I may have poked fun at the fact she was "qualifying" herself to you by admitting her age. I like to poke fun at older chicks' "well" being dried up from lack of use. Meaning: she doesn't get laid much.

    So something like, "I love when old chicks tell me their age. Especially when I can tell she hasn't been laid in a while. How long has it been? Are there cricket noises coming from down there? What is that? I'm gonna have to start calling you 'cricket'."

    But something to poke fun at her qualifying herself, whether she's disqualifying or qualifying, she's "qualifying" herself to you.

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