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    Default Help With Food Court Approaches

    Help With Food Court Approaches
    Setting: food court
    Situation: HB7 having lunch by herself.

    I notice this HB7 having lunch alone and couldn't leave the food court without talking to her! So i walk up and try a Direct approach i was field testing, that goes*
    Me:" Are you shy around Guys?"
    HB7: no (with a smile), I'm just here eating( with a little giggle)
    *Me: oh (with a little friendly laugh), i was over there for about 5mins. & you didn't say Hi?"( with a little flirting tone), i know you from somewhere?( but before i got to finish because i wasn't getting any feed back that i was expecting so i started to go blank, she shook her head and said..)
    HB7 no? I dont think so?( in a questionable way.)
    Meh im sorry!( then that were i got stuck! Iwas gonna keep goin but this slipped out..) you just looked like my Little cousins friend that used hang out with her when back when iwas in high school?( she again shook her head and said no?)
    *I couldnt tell the sign she was giving me so i just ended it with"oh no?(small laugh) well i'm sorry, i didnt want to disturb your meal you just look like someone i once knew.
    HB7: its ok( with a little giggle)

    ... What do you guys think i should of have done& instead of ending it awkwardly?
    .Sickster.

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    Default Re: Help With Food Court Opproachs

    Just keep the Direct Game going. Direct game is where she knows you're interested, so let her. But keep your frame.

    "...and you didn't say hi. What are you studying (if at a campus) or What did you buy?" (if at a mall, glance intrusively at her bag).
    Keep the conversation going.

    I also like (but haven't tried yet) the sit-down-as-if-you-know-her and act as if you talk all the time:

    *sit down across from her* "wow, I can't believe I have to do a ten page report by tomorrow, how's your monday so far?"
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Help With Food Court Opproachs

    Im going to try that.. When i oppraoched the first thing i did was sit down like as if i knew her. Thats what the "u kniw you from somewhere? Werent you my little.. Friend..) , i didnt want to stand over her, so i poped in on the seat in front of her. Was that a good move?

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    Default Re: Help With Food Court Opproachs

    I would say you should sit adjacent to her. It's worked for me. A few times I've sat in front and it just didn't feel right. It felt too confrontational, too much like I was trying to interrogate her.

    So on my recent approaches I've been sitting adjacent to the target and the conversation seems to go a lot better, it feels more relaxed. IT just flows better not to mention I can relax too.

    I've looked in to it and it seems to be that when you sit on the side of the target, they share your 'reality' , they become a guest in that reality. Whereas when you sit in front of them, the two realities are clashing against each other. If you watch Hitch and see the scene where Chip fails to pick up Mendes and the Hitch follows after. You'll see what I mean.

    Also slightly relevant, in Batman Begins when Ras Al Ghul says: "You were my greatest student. It should be you standing by my side, saving the world"

    Wayne: "I'll be standing where I belong. Between you and the people of Gotham."

    This example is just to demonstrate that, even outside of PUA, being by the side of someone is more relaxed. While being in front of them is more confrontational. (Note: I never knew that before, it's amazing how the PUA analyses can be applied to so many different variables)

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    Default Re: Help With Food Court Opproachs

    I have done this twice. Sit beside her and ask her if she is dining alone. If she says yes or even no proceed to ask her about how was shopping and ask her shopping questions that you always wanted to ask. Tell her your frustrations when it comes to shopping and drop a few jokes here and there. I always make sure I buy one thing when I go to the mall so I dont come off creepy. This is not on purpose but I only go to the mall when I have to and that is to buy clothes to party on the weekends.
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