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Thread: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

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    Default Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    Ok so maybe its late and I may be drunk.Tonight i was at a bar with many good looking women. I didn't approach any, why? I have no clue. I was with a Pivot but just couldn't. Its not anxiety i'm not afraid of what the outcome would be, or so I dont think. Whatever it is I do it all the time. So now to you gentlemen I am making a pledge to do something about it. To start approaching women no matter where or who I'm with. So there I am doing this for me but if anyone else want to do this with me it would really help. I will post my first approach on this thread. I hope it is soon.

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    Default Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    Do it mate, once you approach a couple of women in a bar or club it kinda feels like it doesn't matter if u get rejected.....your never going to see her again so who cares, and if you succeed then the rewards by far outweighs the consequences

    Linking x

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    Lightbulb Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    The main reason why people are afraid to approach is because they are expecting an outcome. Although you claim this is not the reason you don't approach, it probably is. In turn, they don't know how to start up a conversation. Take asking for directions for instance. How difficult would it be to approach a girl and say, "Hey, do you know where the nearest starbucks is? i'm not from here." Doesn't sound so bad does it. IT GIVES THE GIRL A REASON TO TALK TO YOU. And when she responds you can say "Thanks! What do you usually get at starbucks? I don't go there too often and I'll trust your opinion." Then after you to talk for a little bit, you can switch to Direct Game and try to get a number.

    Let's look at it in terms of football. Does the quarterback try to score a touchdown at the start of the game? No!. That is far from his thoughts. His first priority is making the first down. It's no different with women. Your goal is to strike up a conversation before picking her up. DETACH YOURSELF FROM THE OUTCOME!
    When playing the game, always live on the edge. You always get rejected by every girl you don't approach.

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    Default Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    I see said the blind man! Yes was expecting an outcome. I hadn't realize thats what I was doing. I have to approach and open just for the sake of that. I knew posting would help me.

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    Default Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    good stuff, edgemaster. very good use of football analogy.

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    Default Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    Goosestave my friend I will make the pledge with you.

    I am tired of just seeing hot/pretty women passing me by and think "Wow shes pretty why can't I have a chick like that". So now I'm just going to approach, approach and approach. Even if one chick doesn't dig me, I'm determined to get better at it until I get to the point where I will have met so many girls that I'll be the one choosing which one to call.

    So even if its not at a club I will just start up a conversation with any random woman I find hot because I know eventually I will get better
    Practice Makes Perfect

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    Default Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    I wish I had the guts to make this pledge with you, but can't help it, I just do not know how to approach when I'm not drunk..

    Espacially in a bar..

    However, I wish you good luck on that!
    It's really cool you can make a pledge like that!

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    Default Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

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    The thing here is to just talk to a woman. Baby steps, start by asking women what time it is or where a grocery store/club/restaurant is located. The first step is to just talk to them. You are not looking for a girlfriend or a lay (yet). Open thats it, learn from it and then improve it. Then just open open open and you'll get rid of that fear of approaching. Hell I still have after a couple of weeks. The other night I didn't open 2 girls and right now I feel like that was a really puss move of me because who knows where that conversation would of lead.

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    Default Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    Yea. I'm with you guys. I saw this cute sexy chick today and just couldn't blurt out something. The opener was right there in front of me too, cos she was walking her dog.

    I don't know why I was scared. Usually it's because I don't know what to say. I could've just said 'hey cute dog, what's his name?' but I didn't. I walked past feeling like a wuss.

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    Default Re: Making a Pledge to Aproach!

    Quote Originally Posted by 1000stepss View Post
    Yea. I'm with you guys. I saw this cute sexy chick today and just couldn't blurt out something. The opener was right there in front of me too, cos she was walking her dog.

    I don't know why I was scared. Usually it's because I don't know what to say. I could've just said 'hey cute dog, what's his name?' but I didn't. I walked past feeling like a wuss.
    Yeah I know how that feels. When I think about it after I realize that I was so caught up in what I was going to say to make her dig me, that I failed to even start up a conversation! What a waste of an opportunity Haha, and I can't let it keep happening!
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