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Thread: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

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    Unhappy Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    Here's one of the things that really stands out to me. One of the MAIN PREMISES of the whole pua thing is that women get approached ALL THE TIME. Well, check this out.



    It seems to me that this video proves that that's not true! I heard at least two women say that they 'dont really' get approached often or 'this is the first time this week'! (although one said it happens all the time to her- the one who blew him off lol). The point is... maybe picking up isn't really that normal. Maybe we should just stick to warm approach....
    Is it possible that people like DeAngelo and other PUAs try to convince us that it's normal so that we believe that it could work and buy their product? Is it all a CONSPIRACY??
    Of course I've read some awesome field reports... but then again, often these guys are true experts and/or pretty good looking.
    bhahaha anyways tell me what y'all think.

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    Default Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    Of course they don't get picked up that often.. since they dnt get approached that often ;P.. everyone knows why..

    Only PUA's approach many girls.. lots of other 'normal' guys just drink a lot and approach like 2 girls in a week - maybe!

    plus, it's day game.. guys get more aa during the day than at night.. and even at night, you see guys just staring at girls and scared to approach..

    so for example an HB10 won't get approached that much, because tons of guys will say.. shes way beyond my league, and then the few 'puas or wanna become puas' guys remain who will actually approach her = few approaches

    @the part of good looking.. (first of all i don't rate men :P) and secondly, usually guys which are seen as good looking, are only guys which groom themselves well and know how to dress.. which makes them attractive
    @being experts.. almost nobody is born an expert in these things.. and even if they were, they still need practice and everyone can get to their level
    @buying product, no1 obliges you to buy their books.. you only do it because you beleive it will help you..

    speaking from experience.. i was sh1t before i heard about game and PUA.. now im better than average (still not even close to a pua)
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    okay, all fair enough points, although i would say some guys are definitely better looking than others due to genes.. i.e. brad pitt and movie stars etc. for example. some people are shorter than others blah blah blah. the point i was making is that puas and pua books seem to emphasize that women (esp. attractive ones) get picked up day after day, many times each day, and over ten years this is what gives them their powerful ability to use shit tests and bitch shields etc. anyways, good reply.

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    Default Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    I think it depends on more variables than just the way she looks. Environment plays a big part. In my neighborhood if an HB10 were walking down the street all you would hear is "Yerp!" from guys all over, then they will ignore them so the guys will blurt out "Bitch!" They get very bold and this is what they deal with everyday. Same thing if you are talking about college girls in a dorm. Put at least 3 college guys together and they will egg each other on to approach.

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    Smile Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I think it depends on more variables than just the way she looks. Environment plays a big part. In my neighborhood if an HB10 were walking down the street all you would hear is "Yerp!" from guys all over, then they will ignore them so the guys will blurt out "Bitch!" They get very bold and this is what they deal with everyday. Same thing if you are talking about college girls in a dorm. Put at least 3 college guys together and they will egg each other on to approach.
    haha, sounds like you live in a pretty fun area and yeah, I guess that makes sense about the college boys- but i guess the one who actually does approach will be the one that didnt need egging on in the first place

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    Default Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    Here's a few thoughts that just popped in my head.

    The girls that DeAngelo and the girls in "The Game" are L.A. 9-10's. In the other 90% of the country, you won't see very many chicks that are SUPER hot. If you do, most likely she's not approached by many guys WITH any kind of game, and the dudes with a tiny bit of game are the ones she's looking to "upgrade" from.

    99% of guys SUCK at approaching, attracting and laying women. Once you get a glimpse of "the mating game", by which I've studied a bit of evolutionary psychology, and author Geoffrey Miller, I've heard, has some really good books on Amazon.

    Looks help initially if a girl has time to "look around" but if she's out and about during the day, she's probably NOT looking up for cute boys. It's up to us guys to do some kind of "mating dance" that separates us from 99% of most guys. Approaching with confidence is almost a sure way to separate yourself from everyone else.

    I think there's a TON of marketing in the PUA business and sometimes it gets to be a bit much. But... there's TONS of guys willing to spend money on learning the basic steps to "getting girls."
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    Thumbs up Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    Quote Originally Posted by zlibby76 View Post
    Here's a few thoughts that just popped in my head.

    The girls that DeAngelo and the girls in "The Game" are L.A. 9-10's. In the other 90% of the country, you won't see very many chicks that are SUPER hot. If you do, most likely she's not approached by many guys WITH any kind of game, and the dudes with a tiny bit of game are the ones she's looking to "upgrade" from.

    99% of guys SUCK at approaching, attracting and laying women. Once you get a glimpse of "the mating game", by which I've studied a bit of evolutionary psychology, and author Geoffrey Miller, I've heard, has some really good books on Amazon.

    Looks help initially if a girl has time to "look around" but if she's out and about during the day, she's probably NOT looking up for cute boys. It's up to us guys to do some kind of "mating dance" that separates us from 99% of most guys. Approaching with confidence is almost a sure way to separate yourself from everyone else.

    I think there's a TON of marketing in the PUA business and sometimes it gets to be a bit much. But... there's TONS of guys willing to spend money on learning the basic steps to "getting girls."
    Great reply man. I guess DeAngelo etc. exaggerate the whole "they get picked up all the time" thing, but in a way that's good because we know something most guys wont ever The only thing is, if they don't get approached that often.. don't they get weirded out? I guess any guy with AWESOME game will find a way to get round this.. I have this friend who's been practicing pickup for a year. short guy. hasn't ever achieved success, even tho he approaches at least 2-3 girls each day. This is what makes me sometimes doubt the whole thing :/ of course, if I get any luck, I'll be sure to let y'all know

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    Default Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    Once you learn Direct Game and understand the power of knowing HOW to be "assertive dominant" at the right time, it makes approaching chicks seem silly. The toughest sets are the ones with dominant alpha males, but if you befriend them, it makes things more fun.

    I keep telling my students to really practice making 4-5 statements to 1-2 quick questions to start the approach and opener and into rapport and the finish. It takes time sometimes, so not rushing sex also is quite powerful when used right.
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    Default Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    Quote Originally Posted by zlibby76 View Post
    Looks help initially if a girl has time to "look around" but if she's out and about during the day, she's probably NOT looking up for cute boys. It's up to us guys to do some kind of "mating dance" that separates us from 99% of most guys. Approaching with confidence is almost a sure way to separate yourself from everyone else.
    After reading up on some Nancy Friday, I think you'd be surprised. They look up "cute" boys way more than we do, and also think much raunchier things than we do.

    Also, your friend might be practicing the wrong thing. A year and no results? I don't even see how that's possible

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    Default Re: Do women REALLY get picked up that often?

    totally depends on the chick and where she lives. If you're in a city, you can bet on it.


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