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Thread: Approaching while in the city

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    Default Approaching while in the city

    So what is the best technique for approaching girls while walking around the city? Also, is it better to use a direct opener or indirect opener?

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    Lightbulb Re: Approaching while in the city

    Personally, I prefer situational openers. They are very natural and give the girl a reason to talk to you. For example, let's say you see a fairly attractive woman walking down the street and you wanna start a conversation with her. you can start by asking for directions (to the nearest coffee shop, pizza parlor, etc). In my opinion, this is much more natural to a woman than is complaining that your friend's ex girlfriend won't move her stuff out of his apartment until the lease is up. Good luck
    When playing the game, always live on the edge. You always get rejected by every girl you don't approach.

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    Default Re: Approaching while in the city

    When u ask for directions, how do u progress this to a conversation as opposed to her just telling you and walking off? I tried this today and that's what happened to me a lot :/ help please lol :L

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    Default Re: Approaching while in the city

    You could do a direct opener depending on your style. Like this guy:

    Direct Number Close - Infield Approach by Sasha Daygame - YouTube

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    Default Re: Approaching while in the city

    With me it kinda depends on the quality of the woman. I never use the direction deal because it doesnt strike emotion in them. I just mix it up depending on how I feel because foreal the opener is just a starter. just having fun ive literally walked up and said the alphabet song to a chick and then said "Now if your interesting beyond your beauty you might get a lil prince purple rain" lol it may sound ridiculous but when you can have fun like this in day game it seperates you from the rest at least for me it works. I do situational and the others too but usually I just say whatever i want because its the transition that counts.

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    Default Re: Approaching while in the city

    Ok, that YouTube is almost intimidating, how can you have that much swagger and verve to go about chatting to women? He seems to literally joke around and not care at all what he says and yet she sticks around, I watched the first one only as I knew that the video represents a large foot ahead of where I am right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Artorias View Post
    You could do a direct opener depending on your style. Like this guy:

    Direct Number Close - Infield Approach by Sasha Daygame - YouTube
    this is the exact video i was going to reccomend

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    Default Re: Approaching while in the city

    @Dave-o ; that's the beauty of Sasha's style. He doesn't care what he says to a girl because there are literally thousands more to be grabbed out of the crowd. It's the epitome of the abundance Mindset! And he sets it off with sexuality - pretty much screening out any and every girl who is not down to fark.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Approaching while in the city

    Going to try and do my first ever day game Street approach this afternoon. I habe no idea what will happen but have a good Eject to use should I be failing miserably. I am try to use Yad's approach for the opening, tell her that she looks nice, say that I assume she's on lunch/day off and what she does for work/fun, then neg her on that before talking of somewhere fun to go, asking if she's been there, arrange a date and Number Close...that would be an ideal outcome, we'll see if it comes to pass.

    I know it should be Opener - Assumption - Questions - Neg - Conmection - Future plans - Number Close ...or at least I think that's it.

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    Default Re: Approaching while in the city

    ask for directions

    if she haeding in that direction an you know it, ask " are you heading in that direction?"

    got a walk and a talk

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