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    mike.wow89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How to approach and what to say

    Hello everyone. I am having trouble getting over aa with approaching women at night clubs or bars. What can i do to work on my confidence to be able to approach easier. I also have trouble find what to say first and then what to do to keep the convo going. Please Help. Thank you.

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    Default Re: How to approach and what to say

    I just have 2 months in and was struggling with aa. All kinds of crazy things that can go bad go through your head, but in reality will never happen. Just keep to the 3 second rule. Find a good wing that will push you to approach. Approach anyone when your out say at the gas station or grocery store. Guy, girls, old and young. For me I would spend like 2 hours a day just trying to approach and first few time I would wuss out and not talk to anyone till eventually I was tired and said F*** this and just started doing it. Just make sure you have fun with it, Good luck!

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    Default Re: How to approach and what to say

    For me, my aa usually comes from the "what if I fail" fear. So I make sure to do that first: banish AA by walking right up to an HB or a set with the INTENT of blowing out.

    Usually it's a cheesy pickup line, maybe I'll elaborate on it.
    "...only TEN-I-SEE!" "...the alphabet and put U and I together!"

    PUA: *set my frame, confident body language (that's the easy part)*
    PUA: *sits' next to a girl at the bar* touches her shoulder with two fingers as if to stop her from leaning forward*
    PUA: "Did I see you on a windshield?"
    HB: "Excuse me?"
    PUA: "I guess I left my car in a reserve spot, and I'm sure you were there when I came out."
    HB: "You must be mistaken" *turns away*
    PUA: *stands up, repositions to be in front of her (or at least beside) again*
    PUA: "Then am I mistaken? Are you NOT a parking ticket? because you've got FINE written all over you."
    (at this point she might laugh at the elaborate version of a cheesy line - but I prefer when it's...)
    HB: "Get away from me."
    PUA: * walks away*
    PUA: *goes back to wing or opens a new set with a similar opener.

    Blow out early and you won't be afraid of blowing out anymore.

    It's like Yoyo Ma said.

    "I am so relieved when I hear the first wrong note from my chello... because then I can relax." -Yoyo Ma
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: How to approach and what to say

    3 second rule my friend. Approach a girl with in 3 seconds of seeing her, otherwise your mind will start to play the "what if" game and you'll blow it. Have an opener ready too, actually, have two. The conversation will be what it wants to be and will flow if you go with confidence.


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