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Thread: trying to get back with ex.

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    Cool trying to get back with ex.

    ive been trying to get back with my ex for a while and we do things that lead me to think that she wants to get back, but then when i finally ask her out, she always turns me down. its happened at least 3 times.

    So Ive been talking to my ex about getting back together and she says that she likes me but she wants to see whats out there for her. Then the last time we talked about it she said its cause she doesn't wanna lose me and what we have. she thinks its going to ruin our friendship if we were to get together and break up, that it wouldn't be the same.

    anyway, after being turned down, I figured id let her go and just talk as friends but i cant see her as just a friend. i always tend to compliment her and flirt and try to get her to get enough feelings to get back with me but recently ive just decided to let her go and do my own thing and see where things lead to in the future.

    what do i do in a situation like this? do i try to get back together or just move on?

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    Default Re: trying to get back with ex.

    I'm sure this has been answered before but i'll oblige.

    You need to do the opposite of what you're doing. You need to stop all communication with her, black out for at least two to three weeks. Meanwhile enjoy life, have fun with friends and other girls, go out, learn new things, get your confidence back.

    After that, if she talks to you act cool but indifferent/busy (with other women preferentially). Make her feel jealous and want to hang out with you.

    Right now you are like a small puppy she can pick up and play whenever she feels like it, not sexy at all. You need to be the high value awesome guy whom she needs to ask permission to hang out with.

    Not gonna lie though, whatever you do there's a high chance she's not coming back. Don't despair, if she comes back awesome, if not then you're already moving forward, i promise you new girls always make everything better .

    Best of luck

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    Default Re: trying to get back with ex.

    I agree with jtorres 2 1. This is a perfect example of her "getting her cake and eating it to." She even said it herself that she doesn't want to lose you. Well......that's exactly what you should do. Give her the "fear of loss." Do exactly what jtorres 2 1 said and make sure to act indifferent when you finally do talk.

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    Default Re: trying to get back with ex.

    Give her 6 months, thats the perfect time, for her to get over it, experience new things and appreciate you. It gives you the perfect amount of time to become alpha again, possibly meet some one better and get your head screwd back on.

    in this six months she will try to play you, keep you wrapped, and possibly ask you out this time, it also makes her chase you and if you set a time for her, like saying, mabie we can try again on a date in 6 months it signals in her head that the chance of you moving on in that time and could make her want you more. just try it, and use the triangle theory in those six months

    if you look at my threads there will be one called getting out of your friendzone and using the traingle theory, check it out, use push and pull, hard to gte, make her qualify and she will chase you, you dont want her just to like you, you want her to love you and if you game her for six months she will be propelly seduced not just fazed.

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