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    Default Openers for university students

    Hey everyone I just joined the PUA Forums and after reading a few great posts, I decided to ask for help myself. I am about to go back to school for Mechanical Engineering at NAIT in Edmonton, and since I spend 90% of my day there I wanted to try approaching some girls at school. What are some openers that I can use on single or groups of girls.

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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    functional openers work well for me when i was in school.. excuse me, ive gotta run to this class, but i just wanted to get somones opinion on this teacher.. is he/she tough? blah blah blah.. transition.. get me?

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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    Best opener for college, possibly the only one you'll ever need, is this...

    "hi, my names blank. I feel like I've seen you around before, what's your name?"

    Nothing else is needed. Don't try opinion openers, they really don't work well. Functional are ok, more so if you're in a common area like the food court or library, but you really don't need anything too complicated. We college kids love meeting new people, especially college girls, so show some confidence and just ask for their name. It works man, trust me.
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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    Quote Originally Posted by Bandit View Post
    Best opener for college, possibly the only one you'll ever need, is this...

    "hi, my names blank. I feel like I've seen you around before, what's your name?"

    Nothing else is needed. Don't try opinion openers, they really don't work well. Functional are ok, more so if you're in a common area like the food court or library, but you really don't need anything too complicated. We college kids love meeting new people, especially college girls, so show some confidence and just ask for their name. It works man, trust me.
    Won't that come off a bit stalker like?

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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    I'm starting University in September again and I have been here for a year (I live in Kent, UK) so I already have experience to share. Just go around Uni and gain a lot of social proof by talking to everyone, show absolutely 0% fear in everything you do.

    On my freshers week I'm hoping to storm the campus bar/club like I did last year and talk to everyone in sight (I have another agenda that's not related to pick up). There will be a lot of AFCs/AMOGs around so befriend everyone and you will have a step ahead of everyone. Just seem confident and alpha and people will immediately pick up on that, last year I made over 100 friends on freshers WEEKEND alone and I wasn't even studying the game!

    One opener I'm going to be using at night will be "Good evening ladies, I hope you are all enjoying yourselves, whats everyone studying this year then?" It's an icebreaker but come in with confidence and enthusiasm and they will immediately warm up towards you, thats all it takes: confidence. Everyones going to be new and shy/insecure so someone with a burst of confidence and energy will be a welcome break from all the arrogant AMOGs and creepy AFCs.

    Openers for the day time "Excuse me, one sec, I got a quick question, I'm in a rush but I need to know... where did you get that shirt from" follow up by saying "I'm into fashion and that shirt is definitely in right now!" then run your game once shes hooked.

    Another for the day would be to pretend that she is on your course (you mistook her for someone else, mention shes pretty but she has better hair *neg*) and look silly but laugh it off and run your game as usual.

    I've got more but the easiest one to always go with is to be confident and ask what course they're doing and to run the game like normal.

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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    No it wont be stalkerish since its school. If its in the city, yes.
    What if she goes:
    'No I am pretty sure we have never met'
    What to respond??
    What if she runs off after? What if she stays and gives you an annoyed expression.

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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    Just approach the group or target and say 'Hi' with a big smile. 'Mind if I join you?' as you are already sitting down. 'I'm ____ nice to meet you'. Surely someone will say hi back and continue a few question like 'what are you studying?'. If you see a girl walking past you on campus say 'hello!' with a warm friendly smile and keep walking. Next time you see her she should say hi back and eventually you will get a conversation going. She cannot think its weird because you are an outwardly confident guy who says hello to people. The probability is stacked in your favour that she will be quietly happy a guy on campus said hello to her. Make peoples day. Make people happy. Keep seeding potential targets. It doesn't have to all happen at once. Ive had girls do that to me when I was at university. A hot girl I actually had seen around before (and luckily she had seen me with my ex girlfriend who was hot) just said 'hi' to me as I passed by. I liked it as you can imagine. Its way too easy to come off as trying too hard using some canned strategy or opinion opener. Most people will converse back if you just say 'hello'. Just be a normal human being and say hi to people. That is being confident and different in itself. Move on from groups that don't want to talk and spend longer getting to know more outgoing groups. Network. One group might lead to another or one plain group of girls might end up inviting you to a party full of hot babes. Cast the net.

    A stalker is someone who continually or criminally invades someones privacy. Approaching people in public places is not stalking. It is human nature to go out and meet new people and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Has the world really got to the point of thinking like that? Snap out of it and approach people and make friends. You can even say that in part of your opener 'I like getting to know people and make new friends...so I thought I'd come over and say hello as you seem interesting and fun'. Start off slow and with charm and then build up to talking to the target or escalating the conversation towards interesting topics. Starting off with canned openers carries huge risk. Better to enter the group more subtley and then build attraction up. 'When does your class finish? Lets meet at the bar for a drink, there's a cool band playing tonight'. Or just start with making friends with them all 'ok nice meeting you all - have a cool day and hope to see you around again'. Next time you see them you already have the rapport and can continue easily. You might come across as a sleaze if you just go around groups asking for numbers straight away. It's campus, you'll likely see them again. If approaching a group, introduce yourself to everyone but sit/stand next to your target. Don't talk to her straight away. Just work on impressing the group and making friends as a matter of course. Then as the conversation dies down or disperses start chatting the target who 'by chance' happens to be closest to you.

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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Just approach the group or target and say 'Hi' with a big smile. 'Mind if I join you?' as you are already sitting down. 'I'm ____ nice to meet you'. Surely someone will say hi back and continue a few question like 'what are you studying?'. If you see a girl walking past you on campus say 'hello!' with a warm friendly smile and keep walking. Next time you see her she should say hi back and eventually you will get a conversation going. She cannot think its weird because you are an outwardly confident guy who says hello to people. The probability is stacked in your favour that she will be quietly happy a guy on campus said hello to her. Make peoples day. Make people happy. Keep seeding potential targets. It doesn't have to all happen at once. Ive had girls do that to me when I was at university. A hot girl I actually had seen around before (and luckily she had seen me with my ex girlfriend who was hot) just said 'hi' to me as I passed by. I liked it as you can imagine. Its way too easy to come off as trying too hard using some canned strategy or opinion opener. Most people will converse back if you just say 'hello'. Just be a normal human being and say hi to people. That is being confident and different in itself. Move on from groups that don't want to talk and spend longer getting to know more outgoing groups. Network. One group might lead to another or one plain group of girls might end up inviting you to a party full of hot babes. Cast the net.

    A stalker is someone who continually or criminally invades someones privacy. Approaching people in public places is not stalking. It is human nature to go out and meet new people and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Has the world really got to the point of thinking like that? Snap out of it and approach people and make friends. You can even say that in part of your opener 'I like getting to know people and make new friends...so I thought I'd come over and say hello as you seem interesting and fun'. Start off slow and with charm and then build up to talking to the target or escalating the conversation towards interesting topics. Starting off with canned openers carries huge risk. Better to enter the group more subtley and then build attraction up. 'When does your class finish? Lets meet at the bar for a drink, there's a cool band playing tonight'. Or just start with making friends with them all 'ok nice meeting you all - have a cool day and hope to see you around again'. Next time you see them you already have the rapport and can continue easily. You might come across as a sleaze if you just go around groups asking for numbers straight away. It's campus, you'll likely see them again. If approaching a group, introduce yourself to everyone but sit/stand next to your target. Don't talk to her straight away. Just work on impressing the group and making friends as a matter of course. Then as the conversation dies down or disperses start chatting the target who 'by chance' happens to be closest to you.
    Hell Freaking Yes! This man just said it better than I have over the past week of answering college questions. Props, Dragon.
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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    I'm at University right now also and when I approach, I am always trying to establish a level of comfort with a girl above all else. At a university campus, there is nothing better than being able to walk almost anywhere and run into at least one person you have previously engaged and established some degree of comfort with. The fact of the matter is that while I have maybe been around campus meeting 5-10 people a day, I am maybe one of the only guys that a girl has met and developed some comfort with. Once you have comfort with a girl at uni (which is very easy to establish), you are easily capable of taking things in whatever direction you want with her. You just need to approach with confidence and show that you are someone that she will be excited to interact with and get to know better.

    My openers are always very simple - "Hey my names ____, I gotta get going right away, but I wanted to just come and meet you quick." -- Easy to transfer into a conversation from that. Campus game is completely different. Girls expect to meet new people and are not at all going to be put off by you introducing and engaging with them. Just be confident and alpha and you'll be significantly ahead of all the other guys there.

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    Default Re: Openers for university students

    thats interesting express. I think if I met any of the girls I approached in the past couple days again, Im not sure if they would say Hi to me or acknowledge me... that is something I will have to work on... unless of course I find her boring or annoying or toxic. then i wouldnt mind not being acknowledged lol. but wow 5-10 people I need some advice from you lol.

    @whitedragon great but no one on campus goes around saying hi to all 50+ people they walk to on their way to class. it's kind of like a toned down version of new york or LA here sometimes. As for the girl saying hi, thats understandable since its just one person whos attractive.

    as for the stalker thing, if you do not talk to her and continue to follow her or sh1t. thats stalking. dont do it.


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