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Thread: I really need to act normal

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    Default I really need to act normal

    I cant act normal in among people. I'm introverted and I sometimes dont know how to joke around with people. I need to know how to break my self free and be naturally charismatic like evryone else.
    At work everyone is getting along fine. i always worry.. Some people use to talk to me but they stop, guess they think I'm weird. I dont know how to just follow the pack. I need help on that. I get so depressed on that shit.. I'm not worried about the girls

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    Default Re: I really need to act normal

    Hey Bud,

    Just keep going out and getting comfortable around people! its just practice. I don't know how old you are, but as you get older its COOL to be different and a little weird. Its BORING to be like everyone else. Find some people you share a common interests with and the conversations and interactions will flow naturally. Cheers bud.

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    Default Re: I really need to act normal

    Thanks. I will go with your advice about practicing. Btw i'm 22

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    Default Re: I really need to act normal

    i think its your inner game.. i mean, you think that people will 'judge' you when you talk, or if you make a mistake, will make fun of you or somethings like these.. and that's why you don't joke with them and are worried..

    start by taking part in a relaxed conversations, if for example ok, (i know, its too late but an example), they talked about the EURO CUP few weeks ago, or the Olympic games few days ago or any other events or movies they saw or coming out or something.. just anything.. tell them your opinion, thoughts or ask them questions about what they are saying, BE interested and people will love talking to you.. it will build more comfort, they will talk to you again later because you were interested in what they said earlier

    hope i helped a little
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: I really need to act normal

    @bobat6 you summed it correct I do worry about what people think, thats why I'm quiet and dont joke with them. I will try to get interested and express my self the way I want. I think about stuff too much.

    Here's a crazy scenario at work:
    I just started work and I was a bit slow on the job because of that whole thing the boss realised the shit and cut my hours. today i saw a new guy and I see he worked pretty quick and decent so i got really depressed and I see he had more working hours than me, so i felt really down and when I asked whose the new guy they told me he quit b4 and came back and i was like oh!! and i start to light up again and I began to work like I never work b4 and realized its all in my head. lol! I know its a weird story

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    Default Re: I really need to act normal

    thanks for the advice I practiced today and care a little less of what people think and it turn out great

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    Default Re: I really need to act normal

    Quote Originally Posted by mangofreak7 View Post
    thanks for the advice I practiced today and care a little less of what people think and it turn out great
    thats great man .. once you beleive you can do something.. you CAN and you WILL!..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!


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