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    Default how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    we are often hitting it off with a woman (or thinking we are) when she mentions she has a boyfriend. What do you do then?

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    Default Re: how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    Keep calm and carry on

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    Default Re: how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    So continue to do everything and escalate as if she hadnt said she has a boyfriend? Couldnt that cause trouble?

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    Default Re: how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    I just totally ignore the whole idea. My rules, never mention him, if she brings it up - don't comment, pretend he doesn't exist.

    NEVER - Insult a chicks b/f - you will be finished.

    Tricky Situation.

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    Default Re: how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    I COMPLETELY agree w/ everyone...HOWEVER, if she keeps bringing him up, that would be a good time to begin the routine of "reverse psychology" to get her to name his faults....it's a difficult technique and I've only done it limited times, but it CAN and DOES work if done properly....check out this thread:

    BF Destroyer Technique

    This only works on a select type of girl but it's DEF worth checking it out.

    Good luck bro!
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    Default Re: how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    usually asking for 'okay, whats his name'?, if she's thinking about it, shes lieing..
    or use the BF destroyer technique mentioned by shoreguy
    or else say something like : " i have 2 goldfish" or something like that which will make her ask you.. 'what?'
    you : " oh i thought we were mentioning things that don't matter"

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    i wouldn't do that.. fights can be commenced.. and you don't want that for 2 reasons..
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    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    Keep calm and carry on because all she did was throw up the flag. It's similar to ASD in that it's something that she HAS to do. You guys skipped a step. You forgot to consider that she might totally be down for everything, but told you as a logistical concern. "I have a boyfriend, but I'm just saying so we can work around it" because whether or not she has one doesn't determine what's she down for. You don't need to sh*t test her on it (i.e. what's his name?) because as of right then and there it doesn't matter. If it doesn't come up again she probably doesn't, or he's a third party of little concern to you.

    You don't need to run a BF destroyer until you know it's a problem. First mention isn't a problem. Fights only happen if you allow yourself to partake in them. dlv's come from not knowing how to handle the situation.

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    Me: "How about you give me your number and I'll hit you up later."

    Her: "Idk..."

    Me: "Boyfriend?"

    Her: "Yeah..."

    Me: "That's cool. Give it to me anyway. "

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    Default Re: how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    If shes a 'perfect stranger' just pretend you didnt hear it, or say, "Thank god, every girl I get envolved with wants to chain me down" then go into another conversation or routine

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    Default Re: how to respond when she mentions she has a boyfriend

    This is all great stuff, thanks guys. I think keep calm and carry on and some others are good for if she is just saying that as anti slut defense. If she is lying. But what if she is not? What if she is not down to cheat? What if she keeps mentioning the boyfriend over and over again? And what if this is your first conversation so you dont know enough about the boyfriend to use the boyfriend destroyer?


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