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    Default Ask for ideas on talking on the first date

    I'll meet the girl I like in one week. What should I talk to her? We are just graduated from different universities. I am asking a dinner with her, and she agreed. However, for the first date, I don't think a dinner is enough,any good ideas for talking topics and follow up activities. Thanks bro!

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    Default Re: Ask for ideas on talking on the first date

    If you're going for dinner you can always go for a walk afterwards to get to know her a bit. A dinner is usually a good way to start things off, just keep the conversation running and learn some things to keep conversation going. You're both university graduates, talk about ambitions and what you both want to do later (Listen to her, use the main point she talks about and ask her about her feelings/emotions).

    Have fun, always smile and be nice to others, it will give you social proofing and shows you're always happy which is an alpha male trait! Be flirty and tease, build attraction, demonstrate high value through stories and being modest about the awesome things you do.

    Hope this helps and good luck on your date!

    BTW never call a date an actual date with a girl, it sometimes presents too much pressure and commitment from the girl, keep it light and low pressured and things will run smoothly!

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    Default Re: Ask for ideas on talking on the first date

    Rule number 1: Keep it short. You should be one who "has to leave because of some important meeting an hour later".

    Rule number 2: Bounce around. Go to multiple venues instead of having a dinner date. Take her to 10 minute walk around the park and play Frisbee. Take her to a shop to see what shoes look best on you. Take her for a small(cheap) snack. Do something with adventure.

    Rule number 3: Dont spend money on her. If she chooses to pay for something then let her. If she asks you to buy her a teddy bear. DONT.

    Rule number 4: Dont forget to Kino early on. Show her the three handshakes from different states. Read her palm but don't tell her what you saw. Play the hand slap game with her. Tell her the three mouse story. Tell her she has something in her hair and try to fix them. If she refuses kino gently tell her "come on im not gonna bite you" .In the end try the kiss gambit.

    Rule number 5: Dont pay attention to AMOGS. Be a leader . Dont ask her about what to do, where to go . Take the lead.

    Some nice conversation starters.

    Ask her about
    1)Her first day at school.
    2) Her first crush(not the breakup part).
    3)Any dreams she is seeing recently.
    4) Rainy season
    5) Any place she could go to and why

    Things to avoid:
    1) don't talk about other guys.
    2) don't talk about religion , politics, death,disease and your personal problems.

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    Default Re: Ask for ideas on talking on the first date

    Yea for first dates I never do dinner. I mean I do. But I dont tell them to meet me for dinner. I have them meet me at 7 at a cafe. After getting some coffee in her and guaging her energy level and what kind of mood she is in, I take it from there. Usually to a really nice bar to get some drinks and then food in us. Play some games. Then go for a nice walk, and find something else to do, sometimes just ending up laying out under the stars somewhere. I use to plan epic dates, and found that that put too much stress on both of us. So I downplay it, make it casual, that way when it "spontaneously" ends up being a big epic date with lots of venue changes it is a big pleasant surprise for her and she will remember it and want more. On then second date you can make it more intimate and things will progress quickly.

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    Default Re: Ask for ideas on talking on the first date

    Hey Henrylu, here's a thread about conversation. I did a few really good rapport dates with this one HB7 about a week or so ago.

    Then I watched a youtube where Mystery described forming an identity and went on this post

    Hope these help!
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Ask for ideas on talking on the first date

    hahahahahahahahahaha . Its so funny I came to this thread (I have a date this weekend with a HB10 I just picked up last night and wanted to just brush up on some material) and saw your post and thought oh good a thread about conversation and clicked on the link and found that it was actually a thread that I had started the other day! hahahaha, what a surprise. I am glad that I am creating threads that are of general use to a lot of people. I tried to do that on purpose. I noticed a lot of people on here will create threads for things that are situations th ey are in that are only specific to them. I think we need to try to keep our situations as general as possible so that they are generally useful to everyone.


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