Re: Taking those first steps past approach anxiety
Wow legendary post mate. Good outlook, awesome story, and all around you sound like a real swell guy. That's usually what happens when we started out approaching we made the common mistakes like worrying about what to say next, having extreme aa, saying stupid stuff, being too needy or approval seeking, and all around just going about AFC (hey like this club we are going to?) you would have had her going and probably roaring laughing if you were a little more Alpha. The thing of it is I have done 100 approaches and I love it when I make women laugh as it makes everything so much easier. Of course I am always shocked when the women who push back the hardest and give the most resistant can flip so easily and pursue me hard by coming up to make out with me which is usually shocking for a ice cold stunner.
Now getting numbers is easy work, you'll get it. I usually try to go for something more before getting their number such as a little grinding on the dancefloor, a make out, a bar/club pull, plenty of kino, and ioi's. I like to run a very serious number of routines to close these girls out but love it when they are into me right away and like oh so compliant. I think I will start making out with them more when they are so easily ready to give up their number and I know it is too easy then I will try to isolate to get some action.
But anyway getting numbers is about attraction. My record is 4 numbers in one night from one Bar in roughly half an hour. The girls were so into me that night it was too farking easy so I am taking a break to decide what I want and next year plan on an f-close, get another 30-40 yr old GF, try to date a sugar momma, ha ha. Yeah but either way AA will hold you back in many ways just keep plugging away till you get good. Your best instructor is yourself in field.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.