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    Default Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    I opened a 2 set recently w/ (what I think was) the absolute BIGGEST shut down of my life...period.

    I was standing at the bar to the right of 2 HB10's who were also at the bar sitting on barstools...We we're in a bar/club that was known for dancing etc. so I turned facing them (w/ my chest facing them) and said, "Why aren't you two dancing"...they barely even looked at me and just turned their chairs around facing the complete opposite way and just shut me down entirely.

    With that being said, I wasn't AFC about it and cried like a little girl...I shook it off and kept playing w/ some other sets...BUT, how should I have approached the situation differently?

    ALSO, about 10 seconds after them blowing me off these two AFC's show up and hug them goodbye as the girls leave the bar...So, what do I do...I completely AMOG the two guys and have them literally eating out of the palm of my hands within seconds hahaha

    The only thing I can think of was if instead of facing towards them, I chatted them up over my shoulder in a "douchier" way LOL

    Any suggestions??

    Thanks, as always!
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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    man some people are just skrewed in this world aye, that happened to me the other night... I laughed and said "lesbians" and walked off.

    They were looking at me all night after that. One even tryed dancing with me and i just snobbed them off like they did and made sure they saw me talking to other girls.

    I garrantee you next time they see me they will be keen.
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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    yeah some girls are just straight up cunts.

    But yeah approaching them head on is always best, make sure you are smiling and giving positive body language to unlock them subconsciously. <-- it is very hard to snub something when these are in check, because you seem genuinely nice.

    If you didn't do the 3 second rule, and they haven't seen, check for body language cues, they giving off negative vibes? This will change the attack approach.

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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    The opener is all wrong imo as well as the body language. HB10s get hit on every 20 minutes by random guys with the same kind of opener you did, showing interest right away.

    I suggest next time opening over the shoulder, using a different opener and negging almost immediately, if they're with a group chatting up the group, not giving any undeserved attention at all to them and negging at least a couple more times. That will surely get their attention.

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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    Yeah bro the opener is weak. So many hot girls get the same boring club opener. For HB10's I would suggest something really interesting. Styles has some great examples of these openers. One of my favorites is the jealous girl friend opener. As dumb as it sounds, girls love that gossip.

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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    When HB10's try to take over my frame I just tease them...and laugh and walk away..and I tart to approach the next set....right in their nose. I have seen girls that have previously played to hard to get...give me the puppy eyes later on when they see that other girls are having a blast with me, while I back hug them!

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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    10s require a higher level of thinking/creativity in general. I agree with Link on the boring, over used opener. But the way you proceeded to enter a set right after is great. 10s require negs for sure...take them off there pedestal.

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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    man some people are just skrewed in this world aye, that happened to me the other night... I laughed and said "lesbians" and walked off.

    They were looking at me all night after that. One even tryed dancing with me and i just snobbed them off like they did and made sure they saw me talking to other girls.

    I garrantee you next time they see me they will be keen.
    Haha that one is really funny. I wonder if it'd feel the same to them as to us if we'd blow out a girl and she'd call us gay.

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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    Haha that one is really funny. I wonder if it'd feel the same to them as to us if we'd blow out a girl and she'd call us gay.
    Like this response. going to try it sometime.

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    Default Re: Got shut down HARD by HB10's

    Never say "Why aren't you two dancing?". You should have challenge them in a friendly way. The thing is your opener is used very often and women hear that every week when they go out so you have to be different. The trick with openers is that you ask yourself whats the first thing that comes to your mind, normally thats what most guys would say: "Where are you from?", "So how is your night?", "You are looking great tonight?", "Which song is this?", "Do you come here often?", "I know you from somewhere?". Just always think of something more clever to say.
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