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Thread: She has little confidence - weird

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    Default She has little confidence - weird

    OK so i met this girl one night at work. I was standing behind the bar and a client i know a little walks up to me at the bar with a 8. My general technique is to wait for my target to go outside for a smoke (if she isn't a smoker I'm pretty much fecked, i have no routine for that case)I jump out of the bar, join her outside, I genuinely ask her for a light and get talking. On average i would talk to her five to ten minutes and go back to work ("I can't stay long" technique but no lies)

    So having done this her friend kicked her arse so that she would give me her phone number (she told me this later) just before she left the pub. She hovers over to the bar, looks me in the eye and hands me that little piece of paper. I took it, smiled, winked, that was it. One hour later i see her strolling back in the pub. She stays till closing time and she gets to stay for the after party. As I'm talking to her i realize that she is quite insecure...

    I'm not used to complimenting chicks who are hot, they generally hear that kind of shat enough... but in this case...well i just don't know what to do... Any Tips?

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    Default Re: She has little confidence - weird

    if she is really insecure it is about something. If she is a HB8 most likely everyone has been telling her she is hot.. SO you emotion and body language are telling her you like her, you do not need to give her appearance compliments. You can still negg her on fun things, like say she is wear a pair of nice heels, call them Stripper heels or something.

    you can try the U and C smile routine, that is generally a nice way to give a compliment without sounding too mushy / non-alpha and will give her confidence simply by saying "no no you have the good kind of smile"

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    Default Re: She has little confidence - weird

    Quote Originally Posted by Achilies View Post
    if she is really insecure it is about something. If she is a HB8 most likely everyone has been telling her she is hot.. SO you emotion and body language are telling her you like her, you do not need to give her appearance compliments. You can still negg her on fun things, like say she is wear a pair of nice heels, call them Stripper heels or something.

    you can try the U and C smile routine, that is generally a nice way to give a compliment without sounding too mushy / non-alpha and will give her confidence simply by saying "no no you have the good kind of smile"
    Hey Achilies, thanks for your input. Would you be so kind as to enlighten me about this U and C smile routine? I dont believe i have heard of it...maybe a link?

    Cheers mate

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    Default Re: She has little confidence - weird

    I can help with that C shape smile routine, in fact, it's a personal favourite of mine because most of the basic PUA stuff is unheard of where I live due to the fact that most men who have the confidence to talk to women are AMOGs with little to no intelligence.

    When I start the routine it would be during comfort or in the last stages of building attraction, this should be done as they're smiling or laughing. I ground my routine by saying "I have a friend back home, Maxine, who I spend some time with as she's a nice girl that lives on my road and she's very intuitive and from her I learnt how to become more intuitive."

    At this point she may say something like "Ok" or "cool" and probably smile and nod her head. Then follow up with "Yeah, and one thing Maxine taught me was that girls who have a smile that's sort of C shaped are the good girls and the ones with a sort of a U shaped smile are bad girls." Pause and she would probably have an interested look on her face. Follow up and say "I can safely say you have a C shaped smile and if I can be brutally honest which I am anyway, it is a pretty adorable smile at that".

    That's it, that's the C shape smile routine. At the end you could probably do a Takeaway on the compliment by saying "Haha, you seem like too much of a good girl" or "shame you can be a bit of geek/dork/nerd". This is last nugget is good for beginners such as yours truly because its a Push-Pull tactic and builds attraction heavily. The best bit is the fact I grounded it by saying I can emotionally connect with women because of the fact I'm intuitive and I hang out with girls which is another form of dhv called pre-selection.

    Hope this helped and good luck with your gaming experience. I am TheManSohan and you're not, have a great day!

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    Default Re: She has little confidence - weird

    Quote Originally Posted by TheManSohan View Post
    I can help with that C shape smile routine, in fact, it's a personal favourite of mine because most of the basic PUA stuff is unheard of where I live due to the fact that most men who have the confidence to talk to women are AMOGs with little to no intelligence.

    When I start the routine it would be during comfort or in the last stages of building attraction, this should be done as they're smiling or laughing. I ground my routine by saying "I have a friend back home, Maxine, who I spend some time with as she's a nice girl that lives on my road and she's very intuitive and from her I learnt how to become more intuitive."

    At this point she may say something like "Ok" or "cool" and probably smile and nod her head. Then follow up with "Yeah, and one thing Maxine taught me was that girls who have a smile that's sort of C shaped are the good girls and the ones with a sort of a U shaped smile are bad girls." Pause and she would probably have an interested look on her face. Follow up and say "I can safely say you have a C shaped smile and if I can be brutally honest which I am anyway, it is a pretty adorable smile at that".

    That's it, that's the C shape smile routine. At the end you could probably do a Takeaway on the compliment by saying "Haha, you seem like too much of a good girl" or "shame you can be a bit of geek/dork/nerd". This is last nugget is good for beginners such as yours truly because its a Push-Pull tactic and builds attraction heavily. The best bit is the fact I grounded it by saying I can emotionally connect with women because of the fact I'm intuitive and I hang out with girls which is another form of dhv called pre-selection.

    Hope this helped and good luck with your gaming experience. I am TheManSohan and you're not, have a great day!
    I like this adds a different spin, always easier to make it flows better, if you take the idea and make up your own way of telling it.

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    Default Re: She has little confidence - weird

    Good one, cheers!! I'll be using that next time i see her. I also read somewhere about a Q&A game i will be trying. I ask a question and she must answer. Then it's her go but she is not allowed to ask the same question as me...start with innocent questions and progressively move into more personal stuff.
    Here it is, right now, think about it and you miss it.


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