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    Question Proublem With Teaching Others

    Okay guys

    I have a mate who wants to become a pick up artist, a group(six) us go to the club and me + 2 others are pretty good when it comes to women. 2 of the others are keen to learn and the other read the game and well yeah.

    the two that want to learn off me are really good guys, one was a complete spounge, did everything i said to do and was just having fun. Great.

    The other came from a very demotivating life style (weed) etc. what im asking is how do i get through to him and motivate him to approuch and trial and error.

    He absorbs all the information i give him and even have him looking at things on this forum, he is keen but we need to give him that extra push along the way.

    Any advice boys?

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    I don't think you can, he had to want to do this. The call comes from within. For example i am going to teach you how to play with barbies. Sure you will remember stuff but do you want to do it ? .. no!

    He may just not want to do this? who knows?

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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    A strong man cannot help a weaker unless that weaker is willing to be helped, and even the weak man must become strong of himself; he must, by his own efforts, develop the strength which he admires in another. None but himself can alter his condition. - James Allen, As a Man Thinketh
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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    Its a great point, but to explain it clearly, he has gotten so comfortable for so long with his old lifestyle, that i dont know if he knows how to get out of his comfort zone,

    He came out with us which is very unusual and too a club which is even wierder so we have to give him props for that, he dressed nicely for once which means he is making an effort he just need that push if you get what i mean?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    Ultimately it'll be up to him, but it sounds to me that he just needs a confidence boost. This will allow him to believe that he can go the distance.

    Give him little goals to accomplish so as to not overwhelm him and dishearten him.

    Give him the task of just going up to a woman and saying "Hi." Nothing clever and he doesn't even have to stay and talk to them. Just a smile, a hi, and keep walking. Then get him to make a woman laugh. Then to touch him on the arm or leg.

    Remind him that everyone starts somewhere and that he's lucky that he has someone to guide him to make it a bit easier. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    yeah thats a very very good point, thats what where going to start doing now, i really like the hi idea, this is going to be a long process hahaha,

    Any other ideas you think to actually boost his confidence.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    I would just think of creative ways that cause him to get out of his comfort zone. Just enough that you know he can do it.

    Off the top of my head....he could go up to a woman and say

    "If I weren't gay, you'd so be mine!" Credit to Mystery and Style. I've actually done this myself before lol. Didn't get very far. But felt good since I didn't take myself seriously. Helped me loosen up and have fun.

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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    hahhahah yeah thats the best, but he wont say that, i'll go with the hi approuch. get him used to just approuching, then give him some openers to play with.

    What are some good openers for unconfident/begginer pua's?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    Opinion openers are great for beginners. If you can, then i suggest coming up with your own opinion openers. Common ones like the jealous gf opener are not ones you want him to try and get caught in it. Also give him an exit strategy such as "Ok well its been a pleasure." So when he feels the pressure he has a way out.

    It would be cool to come up with some strange exercises for him to do like Mr.Miyagi. Wax on, wax off!! Lol.

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    Default Re: Proublem With Teaching Others

    yeah ill start him with the hi technique, and then teach him exit then openers and then we can party
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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