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    Sponge is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Problems flirting

    Hey guys,
    Just a little background information. Two weeks ago, for my 21 birthday my ex girlfriend was sweet enough to give me an ultimatum, then dumped me, then I saw on my ex hooking up with some random dude at a party all on the same weekend.

    I've decided I want to get back out there and meet as many ladies as possible. Although, there have been some difficulties. I don't have such a big problem approaching, it's that I cant seem to flirt or show any sort of interest other then a small talk conversation.

    Any insite would be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: Problems flirting

    Hmm i use to have a similar problem with the close and I really couldn't fuck for sport and could really one have good sex with someone I was really attracted to.

    So it seems like you need to find some inspiration, maybe approaching different set of girl you genuinely want to get to know... start there, but remember everyone has some cool stories and things you can learn from them. Also talking and making friends will increase your social proof, and if you are not really feeling that girl after you flirt, just end the conversation early.

    Also it kind of seems like you are not emotionally ready to get back into the GF ring, but remember you control the fate here, and if you just wanna have a good time with a girl for 1 night, thats all it is gonna be.

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    Default Re: Problems flirting

    Quote Originally Posted by Sponge View Post
    Hey guys,
    Just a little background information. Two weeks ago, for my 21 birthday my ex girlfriend was sweet enough to give me an ultimatum, then dumped me, then I saw on my ex hooking up with some random dude at a party all on the same weekend.

    I've decided I want to get back out there and meet as many ladies as possible. Although, there have been some difficulties. I don't have such a big problem approaching, it's that I cant seem to flirt or show any sort of interest other then a small talk conversation.

    Any insite would be greatly appreciated.
    Flirting is the FUN part! (I'll admit... I occasionally get cold feet with approaching)

    YOU have an advantage my friend. aa is probably the biggest obstacle to overcome.

    If I were to sum up "flirting" with one word... it would be "PLAYFUL".

    Playing is fun.
    Flirting is being playful.... which in turn = fun....

    Also- Girls just wanna have fun.... and fun = flirting = playing.

    This is getting completely out of hand & who knows where it might end up?? (I'm suffering from lack of sleep.)

    But to put it another way: Fun is the ultimate attraction switch. Get her attracted by having fun, & the flirting will come naturally.

    (FYI- This almost makes sense to me in my own head, while I'm writing it)



    Goodnight...


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