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    afh81 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Advice on PU if you've got it

    Ok, so I am going to this party tomorrow...today, as it's early in the morning right now, and there will be between 2 and 4 (maybe more) HBs that I wouldn't mind getting together with (I'm not talking orgy, but hey whatever happens, right?). It's a bit of a weird one though, because I know all of them through work. I don't work with them, but have done work with them on campaigns (I work in politics). One of them i have had some fun with, but nothing too crazy, and I think she lots interest, or there has been some LMR, but everytime it was during the week, we were drunk, and she, because of her job, has to be up really early in the morning. We're talking 7am conference calls.

    I am a long time PUA forum lurker, and I have read a lot of stuff both here, the game, watched the annihilation method program, so I know what I should be doing, I have just never actually gone out and sarged before, so to speak. NC isn't really an option, because I have all of their numbers.

    Any thoughts on how I should approach this?

    Cheers.

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    Default Re: Advice on PU if you've got it

    If you are book smart about PU, but lack the appropriate experience then what you want is a powerful Mindset before you do anything.

    This will help if you need something quick for tonight.

    So tonight I want you to forget everything you've read. I only want you to have the following mindset and your words and behavior should filter through this...

    - You are the prize she is trying to win over

    - Frame everything she says or does as her trying to hit on you (even if she says something mean or rude)

    - You will ONLY go home with her if she meets your standards and expectations.

    - The fun is wherever YOU are.

    Practice in front of a mirror and say these things multiple times until you feel it through your entire body. Also blast some "pump me up" music (now THATS pregaming). And laugh at yourself. Literally blurt out laughing at yourself. It will help you loosen up and not take yourself so seriously.

    Hope this helps and good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    afh81 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice on PU if you've got it

    Thanks, BatMan.

    I don't know if I really even want to hookup with the one I have before, in that she has been a bit cold. I will do what you suggested but with other people there. Freeze her out a bit. neg her, see what happens. I guess it's more of an experiment for me right now just to actually pull this stuff off for the first time


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