O @Autismus wins for best post lol!
Seriously guys, anything is a dhv if you want it to be. Ex. Poetry is a good way to show value if done properly. Dont just be like i wrote a poem about trees. You like trees?
Let her find out on her own. If you get to the date early, hang out and write up some stuff. Then when she comes and asks what you were doing, say you were writing up some stuff. If she's curious tell her its poetry and discuss poetry itself. Let her know (if she wants to hear or read it) that you will share... only if she's worth it or if she's a good girl. BAM! Alpha poet lol!
Suffice it to say, the poem must be awesome, preferably sexy in a subtle way. It can be pre written.
With DJing, be a little more open with it BUT remember she may want free passes even if she doesnt want u! Beware!