Right, basically I quite enjoy approaching girls at bars in clubs....busy clubs mind sorta fight your way to the bar busy. So at the bar I end up next to some HB and open, start chatting to her never really turn to face her, just a bit of flirting cocky funny stuff and normally neg her about not offering to get me a drink....this normally results in a friendly punch or indignant exclamation.
Then the problem is either my drink is done or hers is, then of course because it's busy you can't stay chatting at he bar.......I normally leave on a high note telling her 'maybe I'll let you dance with me later....if you keep being nice ' or something like this.....but clubs are busy and crowded and I rarely find them again :/
anybody got anything I could transition with to maybe getting her to wait for me by the bar till my drink is done or vice versa without having to ask directly as I feel asking 'will you wait for me please ?' dlv's you a bit :/