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    The Lion is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Beautiful woman at the bar

    So theres this girl that works at this local bar that I go to. She is an HB 10 in my book. With a cute body and a mesmorizing smile. She is very interesting and I cannot help liking her, shes gorgeous.

    Tonight I will be going up to this bar and Im looking for some good pointers on maybe sparking more of an attraction with her.

    I go to this bar only one day a week, and I have for awhile. So I know some about her. I actually got her number some weeks ago but with little escalation from there.

    She is a Hired Gun, I know. And she is programmed to be nice to get tips.. I know but, it really seems like shes actually a little into me. I get IOIs from her, like she will play with her hair and smile when we talk. The problem is one time I used too much kino on her and she said it was weird..

    I hope I didnt screw it up because the next few times I seen her, she wasnt too nice. She knew that I kind of liked her too. So for a minute she was cold with me. I then stopped giving her attention and started only talking to her if I needed a drink. And I would be nice but not give her too much attention.

    I noticed that when Im at the bar now, she does little things sometimes to get my attention. Like try and get herself in my conversation or she will tap me. Or just say that somebody is looking for me. Maybe these are just her hired gun tactics to get me to tip but I do feel something with her sometimes. I did a compliance test on her once and she complyed by putting her hands on mine.

    Im going out tonight and any advice would be great. She of course will not be my only target, but I do plan to spark more with her. Since I know her, openers and the begining game stuff would make no sense Right?

    Any Advice?

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Beautiful woman at the bar

    Ultimately you have to ask her out and get away from the bar dynamic. Problem with many bar girls is their hours suck for dating, they can often be boring and if you are a regular customer many girls will not want to sleep with you out of company protocol, the chances your bar friendship is ruined or that word could get around. Try using other bar girls as jealously bait to determine 100% she likes you (if she does she will want to be your favorite bar girl). Use texting to gain more attraction and talk about things she would not normally talk about at the bar. Don't go overboard with Kino. In fact try disqualify yourself so you are not like every other male customer who shows lots of interest. Chances are she hates her job deep down so you can use that to trigger her real inner desires and dreams pulling her away from the bar culture.

    It's not easy to be a customer at a bar and also sleeping with a bar girl. She probably knows that well. You could try visiting the bar less and texting her more so it's more mysterious on your behalf. Dissapear from the bar but at the same time use texting to get closer to the real her. You'll also work out if she misses you as a person or misses you as a customer. Unless she never ever texts. It's all too easy to think 'oh I'll grab a beer there again and I can look at her' but remember you can pull some big emotional strings by ignoring her and not even being there. Or if you visit use lack of tipping to your advantage. Make her work for your attention and tease a little rather than kino hard. Ultimately though you have to ask her out just like any other girl. It doesnt matter whether she already knows you like her. If she has a shift that finishes early tell her to meet for a drink at another bar afterwards (she probably likes to drink) and use alcohol to your advantage or just do a textbook dinner date. Maybe she always gets free bar food as part of her job and craves something different. Can also try drink with her at the bar if they allow that. If you already know her you don't need any fancy openers, you want her to start revealing her inner self to you. To fortify your talents/Social Status visit the bar when she's working and it's quiet with your laptop or iPad and you can reveal interesting parts of your life to her. Take a photo of you two together and text it back to her. Say you make a good couple jokingly etc etc

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    trunkmonkey is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Beautiful woman at the bar

    Wow, good response. Learned a few things right there. Thanks


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