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    Default What did I do wrong?

    There's a girl in my English class that I haven't paid much attention to until Monday. We were walking in the same direction to our next class so I asked her what she thought about the class. We talked a little bit until we had to go our separate ways. Later on, I saw her in line to pay for lunch. So I grabbed my food and got in line behind her, I said, "you've really got to stop fallowing me" in a joking voice. Then she comes back with "I'm not fallowing you, actually, I'm in front of you" in a serious tone. I was pretty taken back but I didn't let her comeback get the best of me. I responded with, "can you prove it?" and she comes back with, "I don't have to, I'm not fallowing you..". Conversation over haha. Sooo what's going on here? She was fine earlier, then a different person at lunch.

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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    Should have just said 'hi' or 'hello again' instead of stuffing up by talking about her following you when she wasn't and in fact it was plainly obvious you were following her. Just ignore her tone, what she said and say 'hi' next time like nothing happened. Using a canned line can easily come across too eager. Be yourself be uber confident but take it step by step.

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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    I find it best not to chirp them about being stalkerish until some solid rapport is established.. girls are usually weird about that topic for some reason.

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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    It was fine what you did. It was just some banter that she wasn't being receptive to. Your biggest mistake was ejecting while trying to stay on the topic of who's stalking who. Next time just change the subject. Conversations don't always have to be linear and you don't always have to respond directly to what a woman says.

    Don Draper from MadMen said, " If you don't like what's being said, change the conversation."
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    Great feed back, thanks fellas. Lesson learned I suppose.


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