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    liquid_fun21 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default girls initiate first?

    I read a study that said that something like 90%, the vast majority of male-female interactions between potential mates are instigated by women. Although non-verbally. You see, guys have the inner fear of approaching. So girls will give signs to a guy to signal their "openness" to being approached. This may be a glance, facing you, or most obviously a smile. It's there way of saying "I find you attractive, talk to me". Now my question is. 1, how does a guy who's never been in the scene learn what these signs are? or better sense them? and 2 how do you become the person that, without even talking builds enough attraction to not immediately be crossed off from a woman's list of "potential mates".

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    Default Re: girls initiate first?

    those hints are called ioi's there are a lot of them (luckily), they are usually made without them knowing because its bodylanguage ...

    to build attraction without talking to her, is made by being the alpha male, or flirting with her
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    Default Re: girls initiate first?

    Quote Originally Posted by liquid_fun21 View Post
    I read a study that said that something like 90%, the vast majority of male-female interactions between potential mates are instigated by women. Although non-verbally. You see, guys have the inner fear of approaching. So girls will give signs to a guy to signal their "openness" to being approached. This may be a glance, facing you, or most obviously a smile. It's there way of saying "I find you attractive, talk to me". Now my question is. 1, how does a guy who's never been in the scene learn what these signs are? or better sense them? and 2 how do you become the person that, without even talking builds enough attraction to not immediately be crossed off from a woman's list of "potential mates".
    Bro Indirect approaches are based on that theory that u only talk to girls who show intrest first. They way to get intrest is by dhving. I am sure there is a list of ioi's here somewhere just search for it.
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    Default Re: girls initiate first?

    I am sure there is a list of ioi's here somewhere just search for it.
    all he has to do is click the word IOI in red :P
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