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    Default Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    Guys,

    So I know there have been a lot of college posts latley, but I havn't seen any that address this question... How to approach college girls/good openers for when you're not in college anymore!

    Aka not coming accross as the creepy dude still hanging around campus for no reason... as this is bound to come up in conversation.

    I happen to work right near a college campus, as well as live near another college campus (where I graduted 4 years ago, I'm 25), so I do encounter opportunities where girls are walking around on their way to class. But I feel like if I venture off into the campus sarging, which is tempting, the question will come up "what are you doing over here"..

    and normal "hey, where is the bookstore" type questions will only get you buried in your own lie if things go well..

    Lets get a list going of openers/conversation thread examples to use in this situation. For me short example conversation thread's are the most helpful. As I don't have a problem just walking up to a girl and saying hi. It's where to go from there that can I get stuck once and awhile. I'll test some out, and post how it went! Most have to be related to stopping her on the street, as that's most likely the setting.

    thoughts appreciated!

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    Default Re: Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    all depends what you want. If you plan on a One Night Stand pretend your in college? .. as long as you look it, no harm no foul.

    But if you don't to lie, then just game them like any other target.

    But honestly I would lie, pretend you are taking some courses, it will be much easier IMO.

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    Default Re: Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    DO NOT LIE. Tell them you have graduated and began working to build your career but you are going to grad school next year or maybe next semester. You want to show you are mature but you still have the college spirit just like them. Also, keep in my mind you are still in your 20s so you are good to go. If its freshman/sophomore then you should be looking for only sex, if she is junior/senior then you can game her like a potential target your own age. Also, remember to be fun and not boring. Hardly talk about your job unless you have a fun job.
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    Default Re: Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    DO NOT LIE. Tell them you have graduated and began working to build your career but you are going to grad school next year or maybe next semester. You want to show you are mature but you still have the college spirit just like them. Also, keep in my mind you are still in your 20s so you are good to go. If its freshman/sophomore then you should be looking for only sex, if she is junior/senior then you can game her like a potential target your own age. Also, remember to be fun and not boring. Hardly talk about your job unless you have a fun job.
    Thanks, this is more what I was thinking along the lines of, in terms of how to address the "why are you around here" question. Going to grad school next semester! Sweet.

    The only thing is how can I keep the topic from going to school related. Because I would be tempted to go into "cool, so what do you study here. How do you like the school, etc" which isn't really attraction building, more LJBF. Wana stay away from that!

    Maybe: (wearing scrubs) you look like the dental student type? Nice, come here, let me examine your mouth. (haha jk, to eary and creepy)

    So could anyone throw out some specific openers or short example's on how to progress with the conversation after opening?

    For example:

    M: ""Hey, how's it going? I gotta get going back to work, but I wanted to just come and meet you quick. I'm ______"
    HB: Nice to meet you, I'm Sara
    M: How do you like going to ____? I'm deciding where to go to grad school soon. (ok, or boring? seems boring to me)
    H: I like it!
    M: You're kinda cute, too bad your not my type or we might hit it off... (or what to stack to from here?)
    H: Oh ya, whats your type??

    This is where I might get stuck or start interviewing during day game, and roll off no Number Close. (goal of the interaction)

    Also these girls are usually moving targets, so how to stop them?

    Help me out with some more examples like above. I think its easiest for some of us to learn from examples instead of theory.

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    Default Re: Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    I dated 6 girls after graduating uni. I was working for a company located near my old school so I use to go there for lunch. Now keep in mine you need to build friends with guys who go to these school because they can invite you to the crazy parties which is what you want.

    How do you talk to these girls? Simple, if you ask what classes they are taking bring up horror stories of when you took a similar class and add jokes. Remember women love to smile and be entertained. Dont be a monkey/clown but he a host. Normally I aim for classes that is common like English 1101/101, or basic chemistry and talk about a professor or the class and give advise and what to lookout for. You can always use the party routine thats where being friends with guys who go to school is good because they can tell you where/when are the events and you can ask if they are going and invite them.

    If they are moving targets, the trick is to get them to stop. Like I told someone on here before say something to get them to stop like "Dont tell me you are taking that class" as they turn around "Are you taking Calculus?". You can also say "Hey Jamie" as she turns around or the set turns around you say "Jamie Page? I could swear you look like this girl I took Physics with? No? Oh so whats your name? Hey nice to meet you. are you going to Mike's party this weekend its going to be a riot [smiles]? You dont go out often, I tell you what its my friends birthday you should come"

    As you can see, women dont care what you do so long as you are established and dont come off as a creepy perv.

    Quote Originally Posted by Rando9009 View Post
    Thanks, this is more what I was thinking along the lines of, in terms of how to address the "why are you around here" question. Going to grad school next semester! Sweet.

    The only thing is how can I keep the topic from going to school related. Because I would be tempted to go into "cool, so what do you study here. How do you like the school, etc" which isn't really attraction building, more LJBF. Wana stay away from that!

    Maybe: (wearing scrubs) you look like the dental student type? Nice, come here, let me examine your mouth. (haha jk, to eary and creepy)

    So could anyone throw out some specific openers or short example's on how to progress with the conversation after opening?

    For example:

    M: ""Hey, how's it going? I gotta get going back to work, but I wanted to just come and meet you quick. I'm ______"
    HB: Nice to meet you, I'm Sara
    M: How do you like going to ____? I'm deciding where to go to grad school soon. (ok, or boring? seems boring to me)
    H: I like it!
    M: You're kinda cute, too bad your not my type or we might hit it off... (or what to stack to from here?)
    H: Oh ya, whats your type??

    This is where I might get stuck or start interviewing during day game, and roll off no Number Close. (goal of the interaction)

    Also these girls are usually moving targets, so how to stop them?

    Help me out with some more examples like above. I think its easiest for some of us to learn from examples instead of theory.
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    Default Re: Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    Last week couple 21 year old dudes invited me to their college party. Now in my post on here I talked about them introducing me to 10 girls. Those guys was like "Man you are so cool you should hang with us." Keep in mind I am in my mid to late 20s. So all you have to do is paint yourself as a fun guy and thats it. If you look at politicians thats what they do, they paint themselves as someone is likable, you try to emulate that. Not in a bad way but in a way that is good. Keep in mind you are a good guy and you are not out there harming anyone.
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    Default Re: Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    Gotcha, and some good tips thrown in there.

    Only thing I'm seeing on your last post... you're back in the Mindset of that I'm attending college. Remember, I'm not in college anymore, and havn't been for 4 years. Therefore I don't know many or any of the people around there, don't go to houseparty's much anymore (I'm 25.., most of us go to bars), and the college I'm talking doing some sarging by I've never attended, so I don't know teachers there, classes, report, etc like your suggesting.

    Trust me, when I was back in college I was getting laid all the time from those parties ha. Half of the time I was the host. I did this year actually attend a party that a friend of mine's sister (and roomates) were hosting, and I hooked up with an 18 year old girl that was all over me. Think what you want.. ;P

    But what I'm really trying to figure out here is what I was explaining in my last post... what are some examples of a conversation progressing & openers that can be used from my standpoint..... being out of college now and never having attended this particular college, without looking creepy or out of place.

    Thoughts? I liked flowing with the "I'm thinking about attending grad school here, how do you like i", and can try tomorrow or next week when at work, BUT I need some thoughts and help on where to STACK with the conversation to result in a Number Close. In my daygame I sometimes get stuck after the opener, or start interviewing.

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    Default Re: Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    You already have it. You have loads of stories. You do not have to go to the same school, remember you already been there and done that. Share your stories. Keep in mind the Mindset of college girls "FUN". So when I mentioned professors and classes I am talking about when you went to YOUR school. When you ask her about a professor if she asks if you went to school at XYZ say no I went to ABC for undergrad and planning to go to grad school at XYZ maybe next semester. If you want you can look on the website of the colleges that are around your area and just pick well known professors and pretend. If you know couple college guys they can give you stories about professors you can use.
    You are just using these as bait, once you got the HB or set hooked you can run with your own stories. She is going to ask what was your major. After all that is over you go into partying and having fun. You are not looking for a girlfriend/date at this point. You are looking to have fun and if it leads to a date/relationship let her have the first say in that but for now you are just trying to Number Close / f-close if possible. College girls are all about having fun and doing them (being selfish). They will want a relationship/date if it came down to it because women normally are the ones that ask for that stuff.



    Quote Originally Posted by Rando9009 View Post
    Gotcha, and some good tips thrown in there.

    Only thing I'm seeing on your last post... you're back in the mindset of that I'm attending college. Remember, I'm not in college anymore, and havn't been for 4 years. Therefore I don't know many or any of the people around there, don't go to houseparty's much anymore (I'm 25.., most of u go to bars), and the college I'm talking doing some sarging by I've never attended, so I don't know teachers there, classes, report, etc like your suggesting.

    Trust me, when I was back in college I was getting laid all the time from those parties ha. Half of the time I was the host. I did actually attend a party that a friend of mine's sister (and roomates) were hosting, and I hooked up with an 18 year old girl that was all over me. Think what you want..

    But what I'm really trying to figure out here is what I was explaining in my last post... what are some examples of a conversation progressing & openers that can be used from my standpoint..... being out of college now and never having attended this particular college, without looking creepy or out of place.

    Thoughts? I liked flowing with the "I'm thinking about attending grad school here, how do you like it, and can try tomorrow or next week when at work" BUT I need some thoughts and help on where to STACK with the conversation to result in a number close. In my daygame I sometimes get stuck after the opener, or start interviewing.
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    Default Re: Approaching college girls, but NOT in college anymore?

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    Last week couple 21 year old dudes invited me to their college party. Now in my post on here I talked about them introducing me to 10 girls. Those guys was like "Man you are so cool you should hang with us." Keep in mind I am in my mid to late 20s. So all you have to do is paint yourself as a fun guy and thats it. If you look at politicians thats what they do, they paint themselves as someone is likable, you try to emulate that. Not in a bad way but in a way that is good. Keep in mind you are a good guy and you are not out there harming anyone.
    And toppgunn, didn't see this post till I posted. didn't mean to shut down what you are saying. And you're right, I should really try to start trying to network with whomever (younger or older) around my area to start making some of these opportunites happen. I do know some people that host house parties occasionally, but at least in my area, its kind of seen as unusual for 25+ to be at some of these parties, considering the average age there is 17-21. Not like I havn't done it before though, and your right as long as you act cool, everything follows.

    But guys, still any tips on where I was originally going with this post? see threads above.

    But what I'm really trying to figure out here is what I was explaining in my last post... what are some examples of a conversation progressing & openers that can be used from my standpoint..... being out of college now and never having attended this particular college, without looking creepy or out of place.

    Thoughts? I liked flowing with the "I'm thinking about attending grad school here, how do you like it?", and can try tomorrow or next week when at work, BUT I need some thoughts and help on where to STACK with the conversation to result in a Number Close. In my daygame I sometimes get stuck after the opener, or start interviewing.


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