So last night out at this bar, I'm standing up at the bar ordering some drinks with my friend (HB8 but just a long time friend). One of the other guys in my group starts talking with these two girls, then shouts my name "Randy! come here"... I step back for just a moment and lean in by them and my friend says "this girl thinks your really cute" (says it right as the girl is sitting there, all of them looking at me). I just say "nice, hold up a second I just ordered a drink, I'll be right back" and stepped back to the bar.
Next the girl gets up and walks up to me while I'm leaning over the bar (I already ordered my drinks and needed my card back), introduces herself, I introduce myself, but then I say "hold on just one second I gotta get my card back". I turn around and the girls walk off... looked for them a bit later but they were gone.
Do you guys think I did something wrong here, or does this girl just need a little more patience? I think she might have thought I was d1cking around with her because I was with this other girl at the bar (my friend). Oh well.
But this also brings up a bigger question. Whats the best way to handle it when a girl approaches you, comes straight up to you and says something like "you're cute, I'm ______"? Sounds pretty simple, but it happens to me fairly often. Sometimes it easily goes into a conversation, other times it kind of throws me off and I don't exactly know where to go from there.. its like "umm thank you, sooo..?"