Hi all. This is my 1st post. I'm a tall 32 y.o. man, I look a little like Adrian Brody, and I consider myself as a intermediate PUA. I discovered the world of PUA 10 years ago, it helped me a lot to develop my self-confidence, and I then managed to get the girl I wanted and lived happily with her until my fiancée got into a depression and dumped me a few months ago. Since then I'm slowly getting back into the game, but now I need some advices from the best!
Since the day I got single I almost immediately dated a HB7.5 20-year old girl (good sex!) but she was a tester/justifier/idealist (Pandora's box). I've always been dating iNvestors and I realized I still have a lot to learn from the community - I recently lost my young farkfriend and dated a few HB7s since then.
Now here's the INTERESTING PART of my story:
I went to a party last Friday night. When I got there I realized none of my friends were there and so I didn't know anyone. I walked slowly into the house, I smiled, said "hi" to most of the guests, got myself a drink, and then stayed for about 15 mins in the corner of the room doing some observation. I saw how the Alpha male of the group took the center-stage, how he was using humor and imposing his dominant body into the zone (he had muscles - I'm thin). As he made a joke about a razor I jumped on the occasion to make fun of him gently since he was a bit hairy and he kinda stepped back and I took the AMOG status at that moment.
The girls were not very attractive but one of them was a cute HB7 so I managed to talk to her face to face for about half an hour. I was using some PUA techniques on her but realized it wouldn't work out - but I started to see some wingwoman potential in her so I continued the discussion.
That's when a gorgeous HB9.5 that was hiding in a bedroom (chatting with some girlfriends of hers) asked me to come see her. I went into the room and she asked me what "Archie" character I would be. I answered "Reggie" and she totally broke my confidence as she replied: "No, you're Jughead" and told the HB7 I was with that she shouldn't listen to me 'cause I'm a liar.
I was a little pissed off so I backed off, while faking a laugh. A few minutes later I went to the living room and the nasty HB9.5 came close to me. We started to chat and I realized that her and I have a lot in common. Actually we have a HUGE connection, the same interests/hobbies etc. I used my good-old eye-contact tricks and made some Kino Escalation, I created an intimate "bubble" around us and we talked eye-to-eye for about an hour until I really had to go. I facebooked her right away and left. I gave her a casual cheek kiss and left the party wondering what was happening to me! WTF? How could she have interest for me?
I have never dated women that looks like an actress/rockstar/top model before. I always find beauty in cute brunette girls - I have my own criteria of what is beautiful. But this girl is a HB9.5 according to our society's criterias. Blonde, ligth-blue eyes, big boobs, perfect. Wayyyy out of my league.
But you know what? I quickly stalked her facebook pics and saw her ex - and he's not a douchebag or a rockstar or anything. He's a normal guy, like me. I realized I could be a potential boyfriend. I'm having trouble believing it... but yesterday she sent me a private message telling me she was working on something she wanted to show me and that obviously she did not forget me.
I think I've played my cards OK while I was with her, with my kino, my eye-contact and my Pandora's Box analysis: she's probably a iNvestor, Justifier, Idealist kind of girl and I don't know what strategy I should use.
My current plan is to wait a few days and send her a private message, but I don't know what to tell her yet. I will not ask her on a date - I'm the kind of person who goes somewhere and tell the girl she should come along... the problem is I don't have a clue what I should do. I need to think... and your input could really give me some help.
I want to date her but don't know what I should do! Suggestions, anyone?