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    aaron0377 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default So I ask her out, then she makes excuses..

    I flirted with this chick and got her number then when I ask her out she made excuses.. I have no clue what to do. I stopped talking to her for a few days. maybe I waited to long to ask her out? Because we work together. Any advice?

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    Wink Re: So I ask her out, then she makes excuses..

    Don't treat her as she's the queen! Walk and talk like you're the sh*t and you have to actually mean it. Tell her how much of a good time you had this past weekend with your friends at a party or something around those lines(How wild it got could help depending on the girl). Tell her something along the lines that you met this girl at the party or whatever you tell her you did and you really hit it off...go along those lines and makes it seem like it's no big deal that she blew you off and so on. After that just don't say anything, keep your distance and ignore her, giving her no attention...give attention to other girls with compliments & flirting! Girls get jealous fast for no reason as most want to be the attention queen. Good luck brother


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    Default Re: So I ask her out, then she makes excuses..

    Could be anything man. She could be in pmt, busy, met another guy or is not 100% about you. Be patient and focus your emotional energy elsewhere to remain objective. You have to be attractive as you can but also realize the limitations in front of you and work out an alternative strategy. So always have a plan B, always promote yourself as being a catch and focus on the emotional connection rather than the technical details of the hookup or failure of the past hookup. Don't be afraid of ignoring her or walking away. Just start re-kindling the fire with a quick hello via text. Even better get her onto an IM app. Just write to her and say 'hi'. Go with the flow of her conversation.

    What I normally do is to not focus on the technical details of a date but focus on great conversation and super attractive offers, dreams, potential scenarios and dhv. Half the time it is the girls who eventually start asking ME out because I did not give them all the eggs in the basket and I told them about the hidden golden egg. They do that because I am in no rush and it is the connection they are after. It's incredibly risky to talk about how popular you are or how cool the parties are you're going to. The true alpha is way ahead of that and will zero in on why he is far superior to others in a much more subtle fashion. The alpha is comfortable in his own shoes, bored with the amazing parties he is attending because they are ultimately shallow or age defined and he'd rather be dropping acid at Joshua tree or surging a wave, and is talking to more than one girl. Don't reveal it all. Hide some of your cards and don't bet all your chips on one girl. They all orbit back to the mass of gravitational awesomess when you get it right.


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