Sounds like she has the selfish asian princess syndrone. I'd either decide you want her as a girlfriend and act that way so she trusts you enough to move forward or start looking elsewhere. If she asks you again are you mad act like nothing happened (because you're not mad - you can screw anyone else you want and there are millions of beautiful asian girls out there without these hangups). 'mad?' what are you talking about? nah Ive just got a pube stuck in my tooth' haha (im joking on the last one).