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    Default Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    Do not use cocky funny and negs unless...
    You have a solid inner game and/or you get into state. I just went through a whole bunch of David Deangelo and thought I would go to the mall to practice.

    I remember when I tried this a few times at Night Clubs, I got really nervous and when I messed up my first few sets, the night would end up being a disaster. However, when I used this at the mall yesterday, I got into state before doing so. All my sets went perfect and kept getting better and better until by the end, I was making up my own material on the spot, following the same principles outlined by magic bullets.

    The problem is that when you use cocky funny or negs without inner game, the girl will sh1t test you. The less congruence you project, the stronger the sh1t test. When I am in state, I hardly ever get a single sh1t test, or if I do its a very weak one. However, when I am nervous, I get horrible sh1t tests and crash and burn.

    I got into state yesterday by walking around and saying a friendly hello to as my people and employees as possible between all my sets.

    One thing I love about malls is the awesome ability to PRACTICE. I see these employees a few times a month and just go through attraction, qualification and very little comfort and no seduction. You know you are a good flirt when the girls love when you come to the store and try to talk to you. If they try to dodge you when you come in, you know for SURE that they think you are a creep and told their friends, lol. Never Number Close though! Just use them as practice for your sticking points unless you ABSOLUTELY feel like you must have the number.

    Cheers!

    My take home message: Do not use negs and cocky funny if you have no inner game.

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    Default Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    Good point about not going for numbers, its very good practice to flirt and game women out of genuine interest and curiosity, when you avoid getting number on purpose your neediness is gone.
    If it frightens you, Do It!

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    Default Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    Good advice to get your inner game congruent with the cockyfunny approach. My default is cockyfunny, and if I'm off my inner game, I simply cannot function in set.

    One great way to achieve this: listen to an empowering song on your ipod in the mall, remove a single headphone as you make approach, speaking over your shoulder. The vacant ear should face the target.

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    Default Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    i have to disagree with you on this one tflame,if you make a habit out of using cocky/funny even when your not in "state" then you will get used to sh!t tests, not to mention that if you want to realy internalize cocky/funny you have to use it all the time !! not just when your pumped, you have to learn to game girls on both good and bad days, because opertunities don't wait for you to get "in state" however you will always do better when your in the right mood no matter how good you are

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    Default Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    Inner game takes a little work, and you always have to be ready to hone it. The main reason it works so well is it allows you to dhv. This is key to confidence. Confidence allows you to more easily dhv, setting up both negs and cocky-funny. Two key thinngs you gotta run with. If you've ever seen the movie The Boilermaker, you just have to "act as if" whether you need to run the show or have a ten inch dick, pardon my vulgarity. Second, if you doubt yourself, you don't have the solid body language you will need. It all starts upstairs.

    Granted these methods both require tact to use, but I can promise you they wont work if you are shooting yourself in the foot out of the gate. Confidence is key.

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    Default Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    Confidence is key.
    correct, hence the solid inner game state

    but seriously you want to get C/F into your natural behaviour regardless, it'll only help you become better, Meteora is right you guys and everyone else should be using it all the time, i watched DD's c/f program and damn that was funny, doing some of the sh1t from there is fqcking hilarious :P and childish

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    Default Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    It's not too hard to be cocky/funny but practise is good. I kinda got it easy since I was called cocky/funny by girls and people in general mainly because I'm quite confident around people I've known for ages and it allows freedom. But as soon as I started reading the technique and got used to the fact that nothing too bad will happen from rejection, in fact you have nothing to lose really and just went into it like a natural.

    So for those who are new or have ever been cocky (everyone can be funny but cocky can tough) watch certain characters in TV shows that you seem to across and they're not hard to spot either. Just watch what they do, the sort of body language/facial expression, the comebacks they come out with, how they speak. You get the picture, so therefore allow them to have a small influence (overdoing it is bad) on you and practise some of their traits, in the mirror or whatever.

    Some people will argue that it's fake or not being yourself but I have firm belief that if you don't over do it and build a personality based on different inspirations, it will in turn become original. It relates directly to art and invention, the most original people in society these days had outside influence and are actually masters of reinvention but yet they are seen as creative.
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    Default Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    It is good being cocky and funny...but as I have found out. You have to tone it down, once she is already interested in you. That will allow you to connect emotionally to her and create the trust needed to get lucky with her, hopefully for more than one night!
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    Default Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    Its hard for me to think of things to bust on her for.

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    Cool Re: Do not use negs and cocky funny unless...

    Quote Originally Posted by Niterider450 View Post
    Its hard for me to think of things to bust on her for.
    you can do it for the smallest things ie not liking icecream, who doesn't like icecream? :O gasp


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