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Thread: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Hey LB,

    What's your intent with this girl? What are you going for? Do you want to make her your girlfriend? Another girl for multiple LTRs? A call girl? From this we can form a plan of action.
    Yo Cody, well brother. I do like her and would like to make her my gf. I appreciate your response.

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Well if you want to go exclusive with her it's going to take an immense amount of push/pull, screening, qualifying, etc. Whatever you want to call it, because judging by your history she's well aware that she can have you, and people don't appreciate what comes easy. You have to be a chase. You have to be hard to get. Don't be a jerk, just be hard to obtain; high value. A day isn't long to make her wait. 2-3 is. Whatever you want with her, tell her, similar to how Autismus put it. If you want to take her to a movie, text her that (with a little notice). Example: "Hey Cupcake, we're going to Finding Nemo in 3D tomorrow night." If you want her to come over, text her instead: "What's up, Buttercup? Come over tonight. We'll pick up some Chinese then play Mario. You better be good. I get tired of kicking ass at Mario "
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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Well if you want to go exclusive with her it's going to take an immense amount of push/pull, screening, qualifying, etc. Whatever you want to call it, because judging by your history she's well aware that she can have you, and people don't appreciate what comes easy. You have to be a chase. You have to be hard to get. Don't be a jerk, just be hard to obtain; high value. A day isn't long to make her wait. 2-3 is. Whatever you want with her, tell her, similar to how Autismus put it. If you want to take her to a movie, text her that (with a little notice). Example: "Hey Cupcake, we're going to Finding Nemo in 3D tomorrow night." If you want her to come over, text her instead: "What's up, Buttercup? Come over tonight. We'll pick up some Chinese then play Mario. You better be good. I get tired of kicking ass at Mario "
    seems logical, and easy enough. Still a bit confused though, should i even bring up the kiss. I don't want her to think I was so drunk I couldn't even recall the night. LOL

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    New developments (: so I see her again tonight. Same place. I've been doing little texts here and there between us. Turns out I'm not her only admirer. Well here goes. I show up and she arrives after I do. Very randomly. I'm there with a friend so it was cool. She comes and says hi then goes and sits with her sister and 2 guys. I did a very blunt "come to my table" text to which she sent a long reply about how she's with her SIS and waiting for these douches to leave. I go outside and get a quick "did you leave?" Text from her, I didn't but inside me i liked how she sent that. (: They leave and she comes through shortly because turns out the dj loves her and the boss told her if she doesn't be nice to the dj she's fired. She was stuck and her SIS was going to come back in a little. So she eventually ditched the dj. Mind you he's whipped and she isn't into him. I play a little touching nothing too over the top and I decide to leave since it was getting late. She makes a point to walk me to my car where she kisses me again... Thoughts?

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    your gonna have to go a little farther to make her really want you but you didnt freak out or anything you were cool so you are doing very well. id say set up a simple date but just say hey lets get a bite to eat thursday you can pick any day
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Some clear jealousy was displayed by her this time. Last night me and my hot friend went over to her job while she was working. It was very crowded. So me and my friend were chilling in a spot. When the girl I want walked by I saw hatred in her eyes towards my blonde tall lady friend, so much she just walked by without saying hi or taking the order. I later texted her "hey. You didn't say hi" she didn't reply so I went up to her and told her. She said hi and that she was very busy. Not a lie. I saw how packed the place was. So me and blondah played pool against my crushes sister nd friend. I saw such hypocrisy in their "kind" hellos towards blondah. My sweet crush kept looking in the pool room and I'd catch her glancing at me and blondah. Night continued like tgia so eventualityIt was awkward so me and blondah (whose trying to help me out) left the bar. I texted her today against all advice just so crush knows she was on my kind "hey busy beed. nice seeing you last night, too bad you were working" she replied saying that she was busy last night. I just wanna know if my idea of preselection (I believe its called) was wise. And what to do from here .

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Keep your eyes on your goal. If you get caught up in the details you could lose the momentum that you have with her. To confirm, yes she is attracted. Now it's time to qualify. It makes you a challenge and will solidify the attraction she has for you.

    Have a list of 5 or less basic traits you want in a woman. Use push/pull to qualify her and really suck her in. Then move into comfort and learning new things about each other.

    I also think you should introduce conflict, but this is a delicate technique and could quickly snowball if you aren't used to containing it. Which is why I recommend everyone master frame control.

    Just remember to keep your goal in mind and just take notice of the details without putting too much focus on them. And the point of qualification is to show HER why you are interested in her other than her looks. So use really good Statements of interest after she answers. (Long answer mind you. Tease her on short answers.) "Wow that's incredible. I never knew that about you. How come you never told me that before? I think I found my next ex-wife. I get the house in the divorce though."
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Keep your eyes on your goal. If you get caught up in the details you could lose the momentum that you have with her. To confirm, yes she is attracted. Now it's time to qualify. It makes you a challenge and will solidify the attraction she has for you.

    Have a list of 5 or less basic traits you want in a woman. Use push/pull to qualify her and really suck her in. Then move into comfort and learning new things about each other.

    I also think you should introduce conflict, but this is a delicate technique and could quickly snowball if you aren't used to containing it. Which is why I recommend everyone master frame control.

    Just remember to keep your goal in mind and just take notice of the details without putting too much focus on them. And the point of qualification is to show HER why you are interested in her other than her looks. So use really good Statements of interest after she answers. (Long answer mind you. Tease her on short answers.) "Wow that's incredible. I never knew that about you. How come you never told me that before? I think I found my next ex-wife. I get the house in the divorce though."
    That puts things sort of more into perspective. Thank you. I doubt I'll do the conflict inducing. You see I'm not all that as far as pua artistry. Just a somewhat good looking guy trying to make something workout. But I know you guys are experts. (:

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Well whenever we mention qualification it basically means to screen her. To find out WHY you should be interested in her. This conveys to her that you are challenging, high value, and that you are the prize that needs to be won.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Yes! Yes. That's brilliant. So she sees that I'm attracted as well.ofcourse I need to employ some push/pull to not seem like a sap. But I can totally see that working (:


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