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    Lightbulb We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Ok, so a few nights ago I saw a girl (i was drunk this girl and i have a somewhat jagged history. About 10 months ago we were talking alot (texting all day, and sometimes talking till sunrise) things got awkward after we kissed the first time and we pretty much just stopped talking. So a few nights ago I see her at her work place (a hookah place) and we start talking, im drunk and shes not working (or drunk), but shes there. So after a little flirting and talking she asks me to shotgun her (put my lips on hers and blow smoke in) so i do a few times. my best friend was there and knows how much I like her (he even talked to her for a little and she says she thinks i'm cute and she likes me), so he dares me to kiss her. I look at her, put my hands on her cheek and lean in. kiss was like a minute long with tongue and everything (but not way too over the top) afterwards things were still good but the place was closing so we bid eachother farewell (even a little kiss then) and i think i remember her telling me we should hang out more often. Shes gorgeous, smart, and sassy: she knows it, and everybody who goes there knows it. And apparently word spread rather quickly that we kissed. So I waited about a whole day before I sent her something like "it was nice to see you the other night, forgive my drunkness" to which she replied "likewise, your fun when your drunk " i proposed we see eachother again sometime when shes off, she agreed. I didn't text since then, nor did i mention the kiss. So now what do I do I really need to get this right this time guys. please and thank you

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    So you guys have both said you want to hang out again - nice.

    Don't send her a "got anything going on..." or "we should hang tonight..."

    Instead send her a "I'm doing [X, Y, or Z] tonight with some friends..." or "My friend Shelly is in town and we're going to [X, Y, or Z]..." either way "...you should come!" or "...what've you got going on?"

    If she comes - awesome. Run game.

    If she doesn't come - that's fine. Text her like "This place gets better with every drink!" or "This place sux, we're bouncing to [another bar or club]." Point is, keep each other updated of the night - it will make her feel like you're hanging out together, and she might end up inviting you to join her later on. (I've closed that way before a few times) Even if she won't start the night with you, she might still be willing to end the night with you after a few strategic texts and a bit of alcohol
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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    i think you handled it very well good job! but yea meet up and just hang out. do not expect anything because it can show if your really trying to get something from her. so just act like a friend. make fun of something about her kissing like i remember the other night but i think i might need another sample of those kisses. just flirt and have fun
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Ah thank you I was afraid I wouldn't get a reply because my title sucks. but I see you're quite active on this forum, and I'll admit my pua skills need some work, I'm good looking, but thats not always enough. I considered reverse psychology and wondered okay, shes at her place of work, she told my friend she likes me, everybody there likes her, and she kissed me there in front of everybody. as if she didn't care what everyone thought. But i'm not trying to scare her off or repeat what happened 10 months or so ago.

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    i think you handled it very well good job! but yea meet up and just hang out. do not expect anything because it can show if your really trying to get something from her. so just act like a friend. make fun of something about her kissing like i remember the other night but i think i might need another sample of those kisses. just flirt and have fun
    makes sense, lol, when i said my friend talked to her, he admitted to me he was also saying alot of good points about me (best friend has my back) things about how i'm the most legit guy he knows, I don't just hit it and quit it. and stuff like that. It wasn't awkward him talking to her either because he knows her too.

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    if you want some easy points with any girl lol have a pic of you with nephews or nieces just kids and send her that and be like just got back from hanging out with them thought id share it with you. women like that dont care what other people see or say she likes you dude
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    if you want some easy points with any girl lol have a pic of you with nephews or nieces just kids and send her that and be like just got back from hanging out with them thought id share it with you. women like that dont care what other people see or say she likes you dude
    funny you should say that my friend snapped a pic of me and her, and also snapped a pic of us kissing.

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    good ! if you get that picture send it to her and be like look what blah blah sent me lol. just say something funny and a tiny bit sexual in it
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    good ! if you get that picture send it to her and be like look what blah blah sent me lol. just say something funny and a tiny bit sexual in it
    I have them both, I sent her 1, but not the kissing one yet. come to think of it. i'm not sure she even knew about the kissing pic, I didn't until my friend showed me :

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    Default Re: We kissed, so now what? Please need help reviving an old romance:p

    Hey LB,

    What's your intent with this girl? What are you going for? Do you want to make her your girlfriend? Another girl for multiple LTRs? A call girl? From this we can form a plan of action.
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