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    Default Picking up chicks at work?

    Ok I work at a public place that has lots of people who work there and many customers. My question is how would I go about talking to customers? I dont want to seem akward..

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    Default Re: Picking up chicks at work?

    start working on your smile. work on your body language also
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Picking up chicks at work?

    I do smile, I think I need to improve body language as a consistency. Any help on specifics of body language?

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    Default Re: Picking up chicks at work?

    You have four approaches: Invite them somewhere, let them invite you somewhere, use your job as an advantage (there are many guys on here who work in public places like bars, restaurants etc who give input on how they get girls like kinoing etc.) and finally use the women from your jobs as wings (they would increase your value 10 fold)
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    Default Re: Picking up chicks at work?

    Lead the men and womens will follow

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    Default Re: Picking up chicks at work?

    As a personal rule, I never pick up customers. I'm fine to talk with them, flirt and other stuff but for the most part I prefer to be professional and WANT the customers to come back, not stay away because of that guy that always hits on them. BUT if you must...

    You need to start with your female co-workers. Build attraction. I have managed to get like 4 or 5 of the cute waitresses where I work to like me, and all of the non attractive ones do, or at least would go on a date with me. Basically you need to use whatever your strong points are. Humor and teases are great. negs are okay, but really risky because if they are in a bad mood they will play you to be a d1ck.

    One mistake I have made though is qualifying myself to these women. I was talking to a waitress and bartender and it went something like this:

    (To the bartender): I'm sure your husband doesn't give a damn what color contacts you wear. (she drops her jaw)
    Waitress: Don't listen to him sweetie, I'm sure he cares allot
    Bartender: Yea, I know (still mugging me a bit)
    (To both): I guess I should have chosen my words a little more wisely ladies...but you both know tact isn't my strongest skill. What I meant was that your husband thinks you are beautiful no matter what color contacts you wear, its irrelevant to him because he adores you. (they both give me a big smile and awe)
    Waitress: (with a big smile, looking over at the bartender) Wow, see I told you about him, its crazy isn't it?
    Bartender: (A nod to her then addressing me) How is it that you aren't married yet? I'm so surprised a woman hasn't snatched you up.
    (to them both): Generally I like to date 3-4 women at a time. I havn't really found one that I want to be with, as I'm kind of picky on personality traits. Good looks are easy, but I have to look forward to her opening her mouth

    This is where it went south. They both challenged me, and I began to explain myself. I told them of course I was honest with all the women and that they just enjoyed spending time with me. Blah blah. It didn't particularly hurt me any, but I fell into their trap. I know this is a lot to read, but it perfectly demonstrates how people talk about you in the workplace. If you want to use work as a viable pickup, keep your reputation solid be nice and sweet to everyone, and learn how to handle disputes in a mature manner (which most times doesn't even require management to get involved). Also learn how to flirt subtly with body language and without going overboard. That damn panda from south park is always looming on the horizon.

    I'm bored so I typed this all out, but I hope it helps.

    Also for body language look up some good ebooks, there are a lot out there for free. Get GENERAL books on the subject, not pickup or attraction related. They will give you more info than needed for your specific purpose, which is good. Body language isn't something you need to associate with pickup, but with every aspect of your life, and its very difficult to correct. I've been working on mine for over a year now!
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: Picking up chicks at work?

    i have worked in public venues for most of my jobs. and i've had a lot of jobs. but basically, i'm just saying i've gotten more coworkers to bed than customers. and that's because you see them consistently, and that can be a good or bad thing, depending on the outcome. i'd say, try it out and see for yourself. then you know if it's right for you or not. just try not to hurt anyone or make this extremely awkward at work.


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