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    Default Boring, interview type conversations

    Hey Pua members,

    So with my conversations with girls it seems like I can't reach an emotional connection with them and I feel like its a one way conversation. It feels like I ask them questions but they answer it and that is that. Nothing else. I feel like I haven't reached the comfort stage with girls and its frustrating. How do I go about spicing up the conversation, get an emotional connection, and get into the comfort stage?

    Thanks for the help

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    Default Re: Boring, interview type conversations

    The best way is with cleaver situational comments that dhv you as this fun guy who just finds things amusing in his environment.

    Canning good DHV material is actually pretty easy.

    1) Make a list of all of your interview-type questions

    2) Make a list of what YOUR answers to these would be - expand your answers with a few annecdotes - frame then to DHV

    3) In-Set, just before you ask an interview question - STOP. Just give them your anecdotal answer, then follow up with the question if they don't just immediately tell you.

    Lather, rinse, repeat.

    Ex:

    Interview:
    "Hi."
    "Hi"
    "So where are you from?"
    "Georgia."
    "Cool... uh... bye."

    Good Fluffy Convo:
    "Hi"
    "Hi"
    "[Comment about the surroundings] ...there's a neigborhood kinda like this back home - I'm from a little town called Dallas. You've probably never heard of it, we have a few sports teams but not a lot of people follow them."
    "Oh totally lol I'm from Michiagan..."
    "Michigan? So you must LOVE hearing about cars - that's why you left right?... My brother lives in Ohio, that's the closest I've ever been to Michigan, visiting him and his family - do you have any siblings?"

    And now you can elaborate some caretaker of loved ones DHV as well as some manly sports talk (or better yet contrast yourself with the typical machismo douche).
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