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    Paradoxj is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Did I get rejected?

    Hey, so I saw this girl today at the food court of my uni, went up to talk to her, had a decent convo, she showed a bunch of IOIs (laughing, touched my arm, seemed interested in me, asked me shit, etc etc)

    I left for my next class before the conversation ran dry, asked her for her number and she said sure, offered to put it in my phone for me, so i gave her the phone, she put it in, etc etc.

    Later, I went to text her to see about coffee, and found out that the only thing under her contact info was just her full name, no number or anything. I wasn't sure if she made a mistake or not, so I found her on FB and sent her this message:

    "Hey, it's ____, That dude who randomly said hi to you today I'd text, but my phone is being a pain. Wanna grab some coffee?"

    No response yet. Should I have done something different? Should I just give up on this one?

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    Default Re: Did I get rejected?

    I'm not a PUA but I have some experience talking with girls... what I would of done differently is.. I would have just waited until I saw her at the university, then approach her with appropriate greetings. Explain what happened with your phone, see if she has to think of a response or stumbles over words as to why the number wasn't there and just her name was.

    This also keeps it more personal, I personally try to avoid facebook at all costs. If you have a location where your paths will cross, try your luck in person first.

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    Default Re: Did I get rejected?

    Nice approach, you should have done a confirm though.

    When I exchange numbers I always do confirmation. I am in a rush but I want to make sure she got the text or the call this way my intent is very clear.

    Yea I second not going to facebook your dhv took a huge hit. But who knows maybe she really likes you and will respond but thats rolling the dices.
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    Paradoxj is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Did I get rejected?

    Just got a message back now, she agreed to a coffee date, I figured I'd do a late-evening thing down at this local place, probably take our coffees and walk to this lakeside park where we can watch the sunset or something. I figured it's a nice way to take a normally casual date (coffee) and let mother nature do all the escalation for me. If we're clicking, pretty easy to go in for that kiss while the sun is setting.

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    Default Re: Did I get rejected?

    is this the same coffee date on the other thread?

    I have to agree with the other guys about the facebook thing... you all of a sudden showing up there sends a twinge up her spine like "stalker"... it seems overly eager and needy to be honest. So right from the get go, there is a red flag that popped up to her. Your smooth move in the food court basically just got written over by this desperate, lonely guy type of a move.

    Its hard to say why she didnt respond to you from Facebook... does anyone ever respond? Facebook has become something a lot of people have forgotten about, unless you click you want message alerts to be emailed to you, you wont get them, so its safe to say for even a moderate busy person, they may not see those facebook messages for a week or two.

    She may feel a bit cornered and is agreeing to go on this date just avoid anything awkward in the future. I wouldnt start planning "moments" of getting physical just yet... better gauge the situation first, as it sounds like you arent starting from a position with upper hand... she has it and she knows it already.


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