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    eXalin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default [The Look/Instant attraction/Advice] But has a boyfriend...

    [FOR THE RECORD, JUST COME OUT OF 4 YEAR RELATIONSHIP, NO EXPIERENCE IN PICKING UP GIRLS/GAME, JUST DONE IT NATURALLY]

    Have you ever met someone briefly who is friends with your friends, and then later on in a club you glance around and you both meet eye contact from across the room for a good 3/4 seconds and you get that 'click', attraction, i dont know how to describe it, but you both end up kind of smiling and looking away because you both 'know'.

    The situation: She has a boyfriend, they have been dating just over 2/3 weeks, hes a chav/dumb ****, and she could do so much better.

    Problem: Is it a problem that we both glanced for a good few seconds at each other when she has a boyfriend? if I ever got in a relationship with her could i be setting myself up for disaster? is she just not happy with her current boyfriend? Or can you just not help natural sexual attraction?

    Anyway, we have lots of mutual friends, and so I added her on FB a couple days later.

    As she has a boyfriend and I had heard her saying earlier on in night to her "sorry i have a boyfriend" to someone else, I thought it would be more appropriate to just give a simple message when I added her and a closer at the end.

    Me: Hey, nice to of met ya , see ya around!

    Her: Hey nice to of met you too,


    Do you think this was appropriate, Would you say this would of been the best way to approach someone who is taken but you both have a mutual sexual attraction between each other?

    I could of flirted, I could of tried to start up a conversation, but I thought I'd use a closer and keep it casual as she does have a boyfriend, and thought it would be better just to remind her that i am interested.. in a subtle way.

    I dont think they will last long in a relationship, and so i thought this was the best way to show interest in the case they do split up :P

    Any ideas or opinions on this situation is always appreciated on the messages relayed and the 'attraction' in general.

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    jordan_5000 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: [The Look/Instant attraction/Advice] But has a boyfriend...

    About the "boyfriend" issue, that's all got to do with morality. If you feel like breaking a couple up is worst it for you and you won't feel bad about it then do it. Since they've only been dating 2-3 weeks I'd say there's nothing wrong with using the bf destroyer here since she likely doesn't have too much of a strong connection with him yet. Please note that it will also be difficult to use the bf destroyer here because after 2-3 weeks she could still be in the "everything is great!" stage where nothing bad has happened yet. Look up the bf destroyer and put it into action if you feel like pursuing this girl. Sometimes it's also just more worth it to start from scratch though and game other girls because in an afternoon you could probably open 8-10 girls in a street if you wanted to and I'd have to think that with 8-10 girls the odds of something developing are greater than 1.


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