[FOR THE RECORD, JUST COME OUT OF 4 YEAR RELATIONSHIP, NO EXPIERENCE IN PICKING UP GIRLS/GAME, JUST DONE IT NATURALLY]
Have you ever met someone briefly who is friends with your friends, and then later on in a club you glance around and you both meet eye contact from across the room for a good 3/4 seconds and you get that 'click', attraction, i dont know how to describe it, but you both end up kind of smiling and looking away because you both 'know'.
The situation: She has a boyfriend, they have been dating just over 2/3 weeks, hes a chav/dumb ****, and she could do so much better.
Problem: Is it a problem that we both glanced for a good few seconds at each other when she has a boyfriend? if I ever got in a relationship with her could i be setting myself up for disaster? is she just not happy with her current boyfriend? Or can you just not help natural sexual attraction?
Anyway, we have lots of mutual friends, and so I added her on FB a couple days later.
As she has a boyfriend and I had heard her saying earlier on in night to her "sorry i have a boyfriend" to someone else, I thought it would be more appropriate to just give a simple message when I added her and a closer at the end.
Me: Hey, nice to of met ya , see ya around!
Her: Hey nice to of met you too,
Do you think this was appropriate, Would you say this would of been the best way to approach someone who is taken but you both have a mutual sexual attraction between each other?
I could of flirted, I could of tried to start up a conversation, but I thought I'd use a closer and keep it casual as she does have a boyfriend, and thought it would be better just to remind her that i am interested.. in a subtle way.
I dont think they will last long in a relationship, and so i thought this was the best way to show interest in the case they do split up :P
Any ideas or opinions on this situation is always appreciated on the messages relayed and the 'attraction' in general.