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Thread: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

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    Default Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    hey guys.. first post here so bare with me lol

    so university started last week as i was waiting for the professor to let us in the classroom this cute girl that was standing beside me started talking to me. we chatted briefly and then the professor showed up and i messed up and sat at the complete opposite side of the class.. however, this week there was an empty seat beside me and she sat beside me. we chatted and when the class ended we continued to chat but there was a guy that sat beside her on the other side that completely followed us the whole time lol...

    eventually i got to the elevator and said bye at that time the guy swooped in and talked to her. I don't feel threaten by him. I'm a good looking good and I'm in good shape. my question is what is the best way to go about this? I would like to eventually take her out on a date.

    any advice would be helpful thanks!!

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    1.) Alpha Male or gentleman's code: never cock block another dude... we look out for each other, not horde in on them... so you can guarantee this guy's overly aggressive and seemingly annoying presence might be recognized by her as well. He's obviously a scrappy mut looking to pick up on your crumbs dawg...

    2.) You guys have already shared a conversation, which doesnt mean anything... its just being social.... she came and sat next to you and starts chatting again... which means you guys now have sort of an established "comfort zone"... her interest level is high enough to either think you're cool enough to talk and sit next to... good sign... she feels somewhat safe... but that's not always a good sign, that could also mean you're just a potential friend... this is where you need to up your game:
    1.) be funny and a bit cocky, but dont over do it, it will come off as rehearsed, hyper and like you're trying to hard... just relax, be calm.... James Bond doesnt fidget, doesnt move nervously and his body language always says "Im the one in control here"...
    2.) present yourself as a challenge.. leave the conversation early, make sure you're engaging with others, dont follow or hinge onto her coattails by any means, plus be the one to disengage from the conversation, dont just hang there and let her be the one. ... a true alpha male treats everyone and anyone with equal respect and interest.. not just the women. This also elevates your social worth and other girls will notice too ;-)
    3.) Just simply ask her out... its no big deal... you're both just starting the year, both of you are looking to create some social experiences... dont over think it and dont fantasize into the future will you get lucky or whatever... be cool, be calm... just enjoy it for what it is... remember, you have to remain in control

    you might want to read up on some body language so you can also identify hers and improve your own (proven that physiology improvement actually will genuinely change your thinking and behavior)

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    Hey dude
    This guy looks like he wanted the same girl of meeting girls and trying to tailgate onto your conversation. It's good your not threatened. Just try the same stuff and if this guy keeps tagging along and the girls liking it, then just move on. The girl will get annoyed eventually. He seems like a chode.
    Anyhow, you're pretty lucky. I dont know what to do in lecture since Ive been failing when I try to meet someone new when I sit down.

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    Thanks a lot for the replies.. I will take your advice and I will give you guys an update

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    Cool Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    Hey buddy ,, I will keep simple for you , you already cut over the half ioi way and the fact that she choose to set beside you when you had an empty seat in the class and followed that with a conversation means that she is also interested ,, anyway what you shouldn't of done is ridding in that elevator without her ,, but anyway let's try to fix that next time ,, you are going to meet her anytime soon , in the hall , in the class ,, wherever so when you do this start the regular conversation about anything , i can sense that starting a conversation ain't a big problem for you and this time don't leave without making up anything to take her coffee like asking her to go throw some points in the last class or any other excuse , it shouldn't be that hard , and if she said that she is busy with anything , try to schedule something after the class most preferably in the same day ,, The point is to get privacy and let look important when you asking her ,, not some random let's go on a date thing , that's how the girl will feel special .
    Good luck buddy , i hope i was useful

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    Thanks bud appreciate the advice....

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    hey guys so i have an update...
    this class that i'm in is twice a week and have different classrooms for each day and the sitting arrangement is different...
    so today i got trapped between a really awkward guy and another girl... however i followed some of the advice that was given and i was social to both of them creating social value....
    however the cute chick i'm interested in sat at the front....
    this is the part that i need help with... during the class i pretended she wasn't there and i just did my own thing... i noticed her looking a couple of times... however i didn't have a chance to talk to her I thought to myself maybe it's better to wait so i don't come across as desperate... what do you guys think? well played or not?
    what would you guys do?
    thanks guys

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    No when a girl looks at you constantly you need to sit by her!!! It means she wants to talk to you!!! If you don't talk to her she'll think you're not interested and that you have better things to do! And that other guy is a total asshole trying to steal your girl, just make sure that you are constantly talking to the girl and try to not give him a chance to talk to you guys. Try to be friends with that newer girl you met and have her sit by you and the girl you like (you sit in the middle). You can use the triangle theory on her whenever it's necessary. Introduce them to each other and give them both equal attention. Even if you don't score with any of the girls, they probably will have friends that are girls! You will soon sit with 5 different girls who know each other, all the guys will be totally jealous of you. After you talk to all of the girls, pay a little bit more attention to the girl you like and you're in.

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    No when a girl looks at you constantly you need to sit by her!!! It means she wants to talk to you!!! If you don't talk to her she'll think you're not interested and that you have better things to do!
    im just adding my 2c since the thread has aged a bit, if you walk in and sit next to her that's fine, but if you're already seated and then move it will show alot of interest, i think you played it well talking to the other 2 people (y)

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl in my class... unexpected cockblock

    Alright, here is your answer.

    First of all, don't worry. The other guy apparently didn't try to talk to her after the second class (I assume you would have mentioned that). She's giving you some definite IOIs keeping tabs on you in class. You're doing well so far, but what I want to know is why you aren't talking to this girl after class. That's prime game time. You just need to find her after class, but don't ditch talking to anyone to talk to her. Make it feel natural. Then after a conversation or too. Then, just straight up ask for her number. It's not a big deal, just ask. College girls love giving out their numbers to cute guys.
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