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Thread: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

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    Default Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    When a woman already has her mind made up on her type of man say (race type, body or status) is it possible for me to crack that barrier or should I just keep it moving? I feel I have a need to break those walls down especially on dating sites. Is this a waste of time?

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    Default Re: Untouchables

    You can break them.

    Keep going bro, sounds like your on a mission! Very interesting too.. I seriously believe that ANYTHING you do on dating sites is practice.

    Good luck breakin them walls down!!!

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    Default Re: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    wemon fall for guys who "aren't their type" all the time, if a girl ever tells you your not her type, its an IOD, the best way to deal with such a statement is to simply ignore it or tell her you didn't know she was shopping for a specific make and modle (compare it to car shopping and make fun of her for it)

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    Cool Re: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    A lot of women of different ethnicities may not date or have not dated black men... So when I approach, Something has to break the barrier to allow me even the slightest chance... I have the LOOK, clothing, appearance and conversation... But I'm hitting up women who JUST DON'T DO IT...

    On-line same thing either they are looking at me like " he doesn't want a relationship or don't date black men...

    So this is a tough one because it's already set in their mind.

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    Default Re: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    It's your game. Women don't have rules, they may have general preferences, (we all do) but if this is a consistent road block then your game is lacking. Attraction is not a choice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Amsu13 View Post
    A lot of women of different ethnicities may not date or have not dated black men... So when I approach, Something has to break the barrier to allow me even the slightest chance... I have the LOOK, clothing, appearance and conversation... But I'm hitting up women who JUST DON'T DO IT...

    On-line same thing either they are looking at me like " he doesn't want a relationship or don't date black men...

    So this is a tough one because it's already set in their mind.

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    Default Re: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    Yeah bro, break the barrier. Girls tell themselves they have "types" of men they like, but they're always curious about breaking those rules
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Cool Re: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    Peace Suave,I feel you to a degree,but it goes back to the original post of me wanting to get those I can't have... If a woman does not date black men It's gonna take something to break them down and open them up...

    I'm totally open for suggestions and really this is mostly on-line... Indirect Night Game has been surprisingly good...

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    Default Re: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    Quote Originally Posted by Amsu13 View Post
    Peace Suave,I feel you to a degree,but it goes back to the original post of me wanting to get those I can't have... If a woman does not date black men It's gonna take something to break them down and open them up...

    I'm totally open for suggestions and really this is mostly on-line... Indirect Night Game has been surprisingly good...
    My bad, this is online. Actually online that could be a disadvantage. I will give an example. I know of a prominent real estate agent that is black and most of his leads come from his Website. He made 1 change to his site because of an article that he read and thought to be preposterous. He removed his picture and his click to conversion rate shot up by 40%. Now face to face he didn't have that issue but online it was a problem. Um, I guess i should have read the entire post.

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    Default Re: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    I have my opinion on online dating (never tried it). You are judged before you can plead your case. A lot of folks has had their success with online dating but to me in person approach especially in the day time has a stronger hold on your potential target. Anyways, I reserve my criticism.

    If you are looking for a potential mate as in a LTR with someone of another background then I would suggest approaching more in public and also online. That way you cover your bases.

    Also work on your frame a little. Such small things shouldnt sway your emotions. You cannot do anything about it. But I do understand where you are coming from.
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    Default Re: Untouchables, when not her type - what to do.

    Everything is good on my end, I'm just saying this is what I want... Everything else is good I get a lot of action in every aspect...You are right about the prejudgment and those are the barriers I want to break afterwards...Not heavily on my mind just a something I would like to overcome a lil bit.


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