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    Question Thoughts On Opener?

    I'm new to the forum, but I'm gonna skip the whole story because, let's face it, that's not why you're here.

    Lately, I've been catching a lot of attractive women just staring at me and it usually follows with eye contact and a smile (thank you, P90X ), but I'm not really sure where to go from there. Take this one girl in one of my classes - we got through the routine "nice to meet you" phase, but haven't really talked. Now, I always catch her looking at me from across the room (eye contact followed by a smile), but I'm not sure how to approach her. I'm thinking to just wait leave the room at the same time as her and just strike up a conversation by asking her if she recommends a good movie or something along those lines. Figure I'd kinda have to start from scratch, anyway. Granted, it's not original, but it's a surefire way to get a conversation going. For example:

    Me - "Hey, quick question; are there any good movies you'd recommend? I'm asking because [why am I asking?]"

    Her - "Yes/no [blahblahblah]"

    Depending on her response, I'll ask if she'd like to get coffee while we talk about it and ask for her number in either natural conversation (how I usually get numbers) or in a scripted fashion (never tried it, but would like to give it a shot!)

    Thoughts? Ideas? Advice?

    All greatly appreciated!!

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    Default Re: Thoughts On Opener?

    If you catch her looking at you, use it as an opportunity to be humoress. Make some cute but silly gesture (not grotesque) like rolling your eye balls or focusing on your nose or wave to her (get her embarrassed she was checking you out) or a peace symbol.

    If you have already said hello nice to meet you then you should strike while the irons hot and not hesitate any longer. Next lesson engineer it so you can talk to her. Even if she is with friends, just walk up:
    'Hey ____ how are you?' (simple but effective, low risk, encourages her to continue conversation as you have initiated the approach)
    'I was kind of tired today...think I only soaked up about half that lecture' (encourages her to ask 'why you up so late' to which you can answer anything that is interesting 'I was out partying...reading an awesome book...playing gig in my band...travelling back in a combi van from a surfing safari...')
    'Or maybe it was the droning sound or Mr Smith the lecturer...man I think you could record his voice onto a CD and sell it to insomniacs!! Hmm potential cottage industry there' (get her laughing)
    'where are you headed now? You have another class? What are you doing for lunch? Join me down on the grass lawn, we can chat more then yeah?!'
    If she interacts and responds well to your conversation she should hook up with you somewhere on campus. Does not matter if she is by herself or with friends. You are just out to develop attraction and comfort. In fact if you can meet her and her friends (or your friendship groups together) you can raise your value up really high if you can impress both her and her friends (maybe she'll invite some plan B's to lunch too). Keep it all casual and easy going. If you can get into a good conversation with her at lunch or hanging out you can then ask her out 'hey you wanna check out this band playing thursday?' or 'lets grab dinner this week, dino's coffee has come healthy cheap pastas, I like chatting to you' or 'have you heard about the university movie club - shows old cult films and provides snacks and drinks' whatever is going on at campus or nearby thats interesting, cheap and fun. If she says yes grab her number and use some random texts to maintain the attraction you have built already or to arrange details of the date.

    Or sit next to her in class. Be the bold guy who doesn't give a fark. Sit right next to her and start writing/drawing funny things on your notes/laptop. bad boy writing notes in class. Unless she's a completely nerd who focusses 100% during class. If so attack her after class. No fear. Just say hi and go from there.

    I would avoid asking for an opinion on movies because you being the Alpha male already know what the good movies are and do not need to open with an opinion question (she will also think why is he asking me about movies??? Ah he must like me but is too afraid to just openly approach me). Talk to her directly with 100% conviction because you are the man who has no hesitation in talking with women or making new friends. You may have to Fluff through a few boring questions like 'what are your other classes, where are you from etc' but that's ok because it will give you many hook points and intel. As long as you improvise off those questions you will be fine because that is the key thing about talking with people...not what questions you ask or what you open with but how you construct a great dialogue out of them and the responses and how you position yourself forward from there. Its like a comedian...not everything they say is funny...its the comic timing of the punchline thats important.

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    Default Re: Thoughts On Opener?

    Thanks a lot!

    I like the idea of sitting next to her, but I'm probably gonna save that for after I approach her after class. Then again, I can also sit with her and bring a friend along and maybe get a triangle effect going? Include her in the conversation once in a while.

    I've read a bit about dhv, so that should be easy to play since I'm an EMT and have dozens of stories.

    Thoughts on taking her to the roof of one of the buildings? Trespassing, but maybe she's a little adventurous? Great view of the city and girls I've taken up there loved it. Might be worth a shot if the conversation goes well.


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