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    Default how to get with a co-worker

    Some may say don't do it, but i feel like why pass up on a HB just cause you work together? She's a couple years older then me though

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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    Lol well there are plenty of reasons for not dating a coworker, but I'm sure you've already heard that stuff. If you still are going to continue anyways then we need more detail about your situation.

    Have you talked to her? About what?

    Have you hung out outside of work?

    Has there been any flirting?

    Just as much detail as you can so we can better help you.
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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    Yes we talk we talk often, my boss told me when I'm not here ages asks if I'm coming in, she just started here a week ago, she likes to playfully hit me already, I asked her if she had instagram and she added me then sneakily took a picture of me working and posted it lol

    She enjoys my company

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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    I'm going to make a safe bet that she is interested so immediately start qualifying her. Without being arrogant just find out WHY you should be interested in her and convey that through qualification.
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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    Could you give me a little advice on how to qualify her? Haven't read much about "qualifying"

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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    First step before qualifying is to come up with a list of standards and/or expectations. Then you want to qualify her according to that list. Only have 5 or less traits. For example:

    For a One Night Stand you want can ask her if she is adventurous and spontaneous.

    If you want a relationship you can qualify her on loyality and trust.

    Once you have the traits you're looking for you can ask her directly or have fun questions to ask her that have a subtle message. Such as "So how often do you go out and get piss drunk?" This is really a loaded question and she really only has one way to answer. And that's to prove to you that she doesn't do that.

    Qualification works best after she is attracted to you and before you build comfort with her. If you try to qualify before she is attracted then her answers will be short or she may even ask why do you care. That's the gist of qualification. For more details there are great products on this forum and through your general search engine.
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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    Hey batman thanks for the advice, if you could help me out some more I have more info...
    I got her # at work she sorta asked for it like she needed it for work purposes but anyways she alwayyys hits me playfully, Kino is good.

    She took a picture of me when we were having a smoke together. She pit the caption as smoke with fagboy ... Lol and I comment you love that fagboy ans she replied I could never love and 18 year old boy

    I don't know what this means but earlier that day when I first saw her she asked "so when are we gonna smoke some weed together" I was about to reply with another question but then my boss cpmpleteeely interrupted and I had to leave...
    If you can give me some more advice on where to go from here and what you think her comment meant on the picture, that'd be greatly appreciated!

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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    The 18 year old boy comment was potentially a sh!t test, and unfortunately not spotting those quickly hurt your chances. She sounds like a serious flirt, and has shown plenty of interest so far. Just dhv a bit (maturity and sophistication beyond your years are always good for women older than you), then ask her out on a date and it's game on. You should have no problem getting plenty of Kino if she's already comfortable around you, then just escalate and close. The hard part is already done.

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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    I agree with what everything Shadowstorm said. She's interested so that should no longer be the question in your mind. The next question would be "How to get her out on a date" then "How to bring her home."
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    Default Re: how to get with a co-worker

    All I'm going to say is, there are millions of girls in the U.S. or wherever you live. Don't risk your job during tough economic times! Meet girls other ways!! Good luck


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