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Thread: Having Trouble K-Closing / F-Closing

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    Default Having Trouble K-Closing / F-Closing

    I've been gaming this girl (if you wanna see backstory see "I am very into this girl but don't know how to game her" in Ask an Expert - can't post links) she's a video gamer and that's what we do when we hang in my dorm.

    I ran my kiss gambit on her. I tell a story of me and a homophobic friend being at a spin-the-bottle game, how he covered my mouth to pretend to kiss me - then I show her then I run Kinos 5-types of kisses.

    She let me do the first four (hand, forhead, cheek, peck on lips) but not the fifth (making out) - probably shouldn't have asked -.-

    Then I walked her home and got to the door (last time I said "what, no hug?") this time I said "what, no kiss?" worked both times.

    How do I move this along???

    She has a black horse in the cube (likes bad boys). I think I just need to be dominant and kiss her, but how do I get her in the mood???

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    Default Re: Having Trouble K-Closing / F-Closing

    Somebody comment on this cuz I'm stumped.
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    Default Re: Having Trouble K-Closing / F-Closing

    Hmm, maybe you could just try being blunt if you feel she's responsive to that? Tell her that you want to kiss her instead of being blunt. Or even use mysteries method if ur a bit nervous. It's something like this:

    "Do you want to kiss me?"
    yes - errr... kiss her?
    maybe "Maybe is good enough"
    no - "I didn't say you could, its just you seemed like you wanted something"

    Also, maybe she thinks ur in the friend zone? If so just say you can't stop thinking about her sexually so friends would never work. But maybe try mystery's method first .

    In the mood, something I'm trying to figure out too. You need to be giving lots of direct eye contact. You should probably not have something to pre-occupy her such as video games since she'll be distracted. Speak slowly and then use the same types of things you already tried. It's possible your environment just wasn't the right mood, too upbeat and not relaxing enough for her. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Having Trouble K-Closing / F-Closing

    I would say shift the focus of your material to engage her more emotionally. For example "I dont know why we live our lives based on logic, overthinking every single decision to the point that we cripple ourselves into a self induced comma losing our personality, even though human beings are emotional creatures. Our feelings overcome come our mindnumbing paralysis, how else could we have gotten here! Instead of thinking with your brain start feeling with your heart..." Condense that to suit your need! Run some Kino as you say this. If the IOIs are there go for it.
    Tempest has a point, how is the mood in these interactions of yours?
    Last edited by pua_wannabe; 09-14-2012 at 10:55 PM. Reason: adding question
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    Default Re: Having Trouble K-Closing / F-Closing

    probably shouldn't have asked
    Probably? cmon man just grab her by the back of the neck and kiss her
    "what, no kiss?"
    did u make out or just a peck?
    I think I just need to be dominant and kiss her, but how do I get her in the mood???
    - yes u're right
    -when she sees u acting in a dominant matter she'll get in the mood u can also do the triangle gaze (eyes then lips)
    -a few questions come to mind: are u Kino escalating right? what about comfort and compliance is there enough of both?
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    Default Re: Having Trouble K-Closing / F-Closing

    did u make out or just a peck?
    She went for the face back I turned my face really fast so that I got a little lip. She giggled then walked into her room.

    I did a lot of Kino. She asked me to go to a soccer game with her because her Japanese roommate and her roommate's friend dont speak English, so I kind of kept her company and I think that was comfort. I made her look over my sh!ts when I went to get a drink and I also put all my sh!ts in her purses when I went to play volleyball with friends, I think that's Compliance.

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    Default Re: Having Trouble K-Closing / F-Closing

    She went for the face back I turned my face really fast so that I got a little lip. She giggled then walked into her room.

    cmon man beta
    Okay then just show some more alpha male traits and u should get the f close
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