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    Default Girl at the gym

    so theres this girl at the gym and while we each do our thing we make eye contact from time to time. me and my buddy decide to do abs towards the end of our workout and she comes and starts stretching right infront of me when theres plenty of other areas she could stretch. now im saying shes interested but whats the harm in trying? I'd like to say something but im worried of this happening:

    Me: hi, hows it going?
    her: good, youself?
    me: pretty good.

    then what? im new at this whole pua thing but i want to learn how to continue a conversation. im good at talking with friends but as soon as its a girl im interested in i become, what i call "socially retarded". id like to try dhv but it feels so forced and unbelievable when i rehearse it. i should probably get my opener down first though.

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    im not saying shes interested**

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    Personally, I would tell her to stop blocking my view. She'd probably laugh and then you can just pick up like normal. Of course you're in a gym so you'd be totally fine to comment on her muscles half sarcastically, easy Kino. Tell her ur starving after ur workout and you're going to go to such and such and she should come. Everyone's hungry after a workout :P

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    thats actually pretty good. thanks man.

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    Don't be general and nice with what you want to say to her.

    When you talk to her, do it with purpose like you meant it and you're genuinely interested but not serious (casual)

    For example, you see her stretching ask her "how long do you stretch before working out?" Also the above example that "you're blocking my view is a great opener, I'd personally use it.

    She'll say something
    At this point you usually get stuck and mumble what to say to her, observe what she's doing before you talk to her so you can bring it up in conversation. This can be if she bends a certain way. Don't go for compliments you're just going to put her on pedestal in your mind even though its alright to say it to her.

    Ask her name, how often she comes here, she's start to talk and she'll probably give you a low down her workout routines, you can be calm and talk about what you're doing but whatever you say don't come off as gloaty or prideful or I did this many laps, reps, sets. This goes off in general, woman can sense when you're trying to show off your Social Status so just don't do it initially until things take off or if you really good and can integrate it with humor.

    Ask her if she's single, nothing wrong with that and you're getting to point without wasting both your time.

    good luck, If I did enough approaches I'd be following my own advice lol

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    Just have fun honestly, I just made fun of a couple girls today. some girl was working out and facing an old man so I asked if she liked what she saw. She was pretty intense so she didn't open up but it's worked well before. Some people get into that Mindset. And another girl looked exhausted after her workout and was leaning against a railing looking into the gym. I told her she shouldn't be so nervous to enter, the people in there are really nice. I can show you around. Food for though, gl all!

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    be a smart ass

    Say" did i take you're spot?" but be heaps cheecky and then go " i'll move, here take your spot"

    always with a cheecky smile

    Gym is hard, i successfully pulled a personal trainer, actualy twice now. but normal girls, I usually see a girl do a wierd exercise and use that as opener acting like i've never seen it and ask what it does?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    hmm see, ive heard of that opener before to take someones spot in class too. But im not really sure how to act. Can you explain it more than being cheeky :/?

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    seee, its not really what you say but how you say it that makes the difference, having a cheecky smile and laughing about indicates that you're not being serious with the comment, in other words a joke. I find with my approaches, if a girl insults me, i say" ohhh im so offended" BUT!!!!! (with a cheecky smile and laughing about it) and continue my game. so i use body language to counteract the comments i use.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Girl at the gym

    Right but, how do you make it last a while. I mean, if i was to do it right now I don't feel like it would keep their interest for very long. Do you just, give them back their seat and then continue gaming?


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