PUA: As a woman how important are a man's finances when deciding if you want to pursue a relationship with him? The reason I am asking is because my friend NAME is a really great person and he has a crush on NAME and asked me to keep it a secret until he is ready to make his move. I decided to help him out a little and ask her a few questions but, nothing that would let her know who the mystery man was. She got excited and started asking me if it was one of my co-workers. She kept asking me about where he works, what he drives, and where he might take her if he asked her out. Throughout her questions she seemed really interested in his finances as if it was a prereq for going out with him. She didn't ask any questions about his looks, or personality. That made me wonder if all women think that way?
I'm considering telling my friend to back off because I don't want to see him hurt or potentially used.
I think this opener gives your HB a chance to see that you can be friends with a female and not try to sleep with her, that you care about your friends, that you are employed, and that you value your relationships with others. Serious dhv
I also feel that this opener allows her to qualify herself, and possibly lead to other conversations. The conversation seems normal and after talking about two other people for a short amount of time she will gradually open up and start talking about herself and how she thinks and feels.
Let me know how it works for you if your try it and what you think about it.
Thanks and Happy Gaming!