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Thread: She called me out on my game....

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    Default She called me out on my game....

    I was on a date today and we're both Polish so there was always something to talk about. She totally called how I was making fun of her (negs, i think?), yet then making fun of myself, and how its unattractive to do the latter. Other than that she commented on how she likes that fact that I'm so calm. I laughed and said that she didn't catch my sarcasm, but otherwise things went well and she wants me to come hang out this weekend. She said she was super nervous and it would be much easier to interact in a more social atmosphere.

    We were at a bar and I'm a little annoyed at how she tried to juggle me and the soccer match for her attention. Shes a major soccer fan and plays actively, I shrugged it off and told her I can't wait to get home and tell me friends how all my date did was yawn and watch soccer all night. It got a laugh, but deep down I had a big sigh.

    Shes 2 months out of a 5 year relationship and I tried to derail and relationship talk ASAP by saying isn't there something way more interesting to talk about, I feel like we're going backwards talking about that stuff.

    I really hope I didn't put myself in the friend zone. Without too much info, what are your takes on this gents?

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    Default Re: She called me out on my game....

    The hard reality is not a lot of girls actually talk about anything interesting unless it's gossip haha. They are generally not factual creatures but emotional. So you could use football to your advantage by actually taking her to a game and then spinning off the emotions of your favorite teams winning or loosing. If you want you can also use her past relationship to your advantage too. Whether its backwards or forwards is up to your conversational skills. Sit there and listen to her calmy as you did before except don't say it's boring. She will get it off her chest and perhaps reward you for listening. You need an emotional connection with a women before they will sleep with you and both those elements provide an abundance of opportunities. listening is easy and likely she will reveal some of her vulnerability that you can utilize. She has come out of a long relationship, she may be looking for someone different (listen to how she describes her ex and then act the opposite) and listening to enough of her relationship unphased gives you good intel in general. Tapping into her football emotions can tap into her primal physical emotions 'what position do you like to play?', 'I hope you have a soft side', 'any lesbian team mates ever check you out in the locker room? ' Or she may just be looking for something casual and without drama, in which case I would carefully (because she's shy) but rapidly escalate towards romance/physical intimacy without saying anything mushy about long term commitment, anything that has the potential to lead to hurt or potential baggage that could burden her. That means being a fun positive guy, not the yawning guy or overly sarcastic cocky guy or the guy that will hurt her or she could hurt. Try get her in a situation that reveals her body language (casual dinner date) with no distractions, so you have some garauntee she will accept your advances and somewhere away from a football match in that case is going to be better. Don't forget to Kino. One of the easiest ways to turn on anyone is to gently touch them during iconic parts of the conversation and observing how they react. Next time you see her touch her in some way so you are subliminally telling her you do not want to be friendzoned but are physically interested. Almost all girls will respond to kino (positive or negative) giving you a clearer direction of where to take things.

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    Default Re: She called me out on my game....

    There's a technique by Juggler. I think it's called flopsy. Basically what it states is that if you want to grab a woman's attention you first have to address what her attention is on first. Then you can get her to refocus after. Nifty little trick that I forgot the details on lol.
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    Default Re: She called me out on my game....

    At the point where you got annoyed that she was watching the game, you could've asked her, "if you were at home right now, you'd be watching this game?" If she says yes, you could take charge and say "well, let's get the hell out of here, what are we waiting for" with a smirk on your face. Be playful with it but at the same time, say it like you mean it. If she says no, you could say something like "well get your ass up off that seat and show me some dance moves."


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