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Thread: Girl that i don't know gives nonverbal iois..What do I do?

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    Default Girl that i don't know gives nonverbal iois..What do I do?

    I'm in high school. There is a girl that likes me. I can tell the way she looks at me. I know how to approach her and shit but wouldn't that dlv if I show interest since I don't really know her except awkward eye contact? How do I handle a girl that is already attracted to me? Do I still have to dhv, compliance etc? helppp!! appreciated guys

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    Default Re: Girl that i don't know gives nonverbal iois..What do I do?

    If she's truly checking you out she WANTS you to approach her so it is practically impossible to dlv yourself by approaching and talking to a girl. It's confident and she will recognize that especially if you act sooner rather than later. We cant disguise the facts that girls and guys like each other! All she is doing is expressing interest and all you are doing by talking to her is expressing interest. She is not giving you a lapdance just yet. She might be sending signals to a bunch of guys around school for all you know too. Your a great white shark coming in to check out the bait but you don't have to take it. She wants you to go and talk to her so do it! Act calm like you're used to this sort of thing and just be yourself. Don't act too excited or give yourself too much dhv. If she already likes you she will have likely valued you high in her imagination. Say one positive thing about yourself if you must 'which class do like the best? Well I'm a good guitar player so i like music but i score best in physics'. Whatever it is. Let her respond to your approach and get her asking questions about you. You can retain intrigue that way. One step at a time. End your first conversation with 'nice to get to know you better, I'm glad I met you', if all is well she will say the same. You don't have to say anything about her being cute or checking you out etc. Next time you can ask her out or wait to see how much initiative she takes in wanting to take it further.

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    Default Re: Girl that i don't know gives nonverbal iois..What do I do?

    If she's already showing ioi's you don't need do anything except say Hi, how are you doing today? Don't overthink this, you'll do more harm than good.

    I put a post on the warm approach, same principle, except it's even easier in high school, you really don't need formal game, just the confidence to say Hi.

    check it out here
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-approac...html#post49474
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