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    Konstantin is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default ADD Girl! How do I get her to calm down!???

    Ok so I picked up this HB8 last night and we bounced from one bar to another with her friend and my wing. It was fun and all but she was pretty much like a hamster on cocaine the entire night lol At first she wouldn't walk with the group and just run ahead in between crowds and then wait for us, which didn't really bug me at first but after a couple of times I took her arm and put it around mine and told her to walk at my pace. I playfully negged her for running around for a bit and then resumed my game. Everything was going well until we arrived to another club.

    I need help in getting her to focus on me, she was giving me tons of IOIs and even bought me a drink. Problem is she kept running around, talking to friends, going on the dance floor, etc. but in the end she always came to me.

    How do I get an ADD girl to relax and stop being all over the place so I can build comfort/rapport?

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    bobat6 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: ADD Girl! How do I get her to calm down!???

    never EVER give her a red bull :P..keep her busy, heavy makeout session will probably do the trick, or dance with her, just anything in which she doesn't need to talk to someone else in order to do something
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Jason Ro is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: ADD Girl! How do I get her to calm down!???

    Instead of trying to get her to focus on you, embrace her spontaneous, energetic behavior. Say something like, "You're quite jumpy tonight" with a slight smile on your face. Make playful observations about her behavior. Focus on having fun with others around you. You said the girl kept coming back to you during the night. This is a great opportunity to ask her what kind of trouble her crazy behavior got her into this time. When she leaves, tell her "don't do anything too crazy" in a playful way and go back to your friends. Let her have fun with other people. Remember, you don't need her to be around you at all times to have a good time.


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