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    Default How to keep the conversation flowing?

    Going into a conversation with a girl, what are some good tips in keeping the conversation flowing?
    I always ask them about what there favorite food is or w/e
    BUT.. the problem is that asking her, sounds too MUCH like an interview...
    What are other ways I can make it sound better?
    What are some good tips to keep the conversation flowing?
    Every tip you guys give me is very helpful, thank you.

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    Default Re: How to keep the conversation flowing?

    I am new to this. One thing you could do perhaps is ask about there interests and let them explain it to you. This is of course after you get to know them a little. Let them do some of the talking with small interesting prompts from you. Many people like to talk about themselves. Don't overdo this. It just may extend the conversation a little longer.

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    Default Re: How to keep the conversation flowing?

    This thread.

    Nuff said

    Actually it wasn't. I still had to make sure I typed 30 characters. Damn me. So silly. I have to know that stuff by now. Well, anyways, I think I typed enough characters now. Just a few more to make sure. Yeah.

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    Default Re: How to keep the conversation flowing?

    keeping a conversation going is probably the most common fear guys have when communicating with women.

    I have some simple effective ways to keep the conversation going which I personally use and teach all my students.

    1. listen carefully to every word that comes out of her mouth

    2. have a positive playful vibe when your talking

    3. use strong eye contact to keep her invested in the conversation

    4. be expressive when you speak

    So example a girl says she is on her way to the "gym" most guys just say oh cool I love the gym to.. boring, boring,

    Let me share a small technique that has served me well with being able to never run flat in conversation!!

    I take the word "gym" which the girl says.. then I expand on all the things that come with the gym and most importantly her.. so something straight forward like.. so your doing cardio? or weights right? this gives the girl 2 choices to make and girls will always pick one for example she says cardio/... you can say I bet you feel really good once you have had your workout .. almost more confident right? these statements are really powerful.. the girl will probably say yeah I love the gym and all that ect... then you can say so are you very dedicated once you set your mind to something? now the conversation is openeing up.. you can start surface then get deep... now the girl is investing in not only the conversation but you too. You can now ask the standard boring questions we are socially conditioned to ask like? how old are you btw where do you come from.. because conversation is an art form.. and like any skill knowing when to pull out the tools comes from practice and experience.

    Listen to what women say take the information they give you expand on it and use that to keep the conversation going.

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    Default Re: How to keep the conversation flowing?

    Nice example Johnny!
    I was going to say something very similar.

    Instead of asking questions, it's more fun & interesting to the girl if you make assumptions. (Just like Johnny's cardio/weights example.)

    So, if you want to find out what she does for work, you would say something like: "I'm guessing you're probably a nurse... You pay great attention to detail & have a very helpful, caring vibe about you."

    Whether she IS a nurse or not doesn't matter... she'll let you know what she actually does; BUT, the complimentary explanation of why you guessed "nurse" is going to score you bonus points.


    Also- you can exchange "nurse" with any other profession, & tweak the explanation accordingly.
    (It's kinda like doing a cold read...)

    But that technique is great because most guys DON'T do that.


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    Default Re: How to keep the conversation flowing?

    you got it mate..

    I think most of us guys know this but we don't put it into practice so it then becomes second nature.

    I think conversation skills should be taught in schools more... not pua lol just saying people should be prepared for the world it's tuff out there if your not prepared.


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