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    Question How can I ask this girl out?

    So I met this cute-girl when I went on a hiking trip with a female-friend. The cute-girl originally thought the female-friend was my girlfriend, but as we talked and became friends, she realized that the female-friend of mine isn't my girlfriend.

    The three of us went out for drinks a couple times and we had a really good time. I've realized that the cute-girl and I have a lot in common.

    We are now meeting up this weekend (just the girl and I) to do some charity work, and we're going to a concert (just the two of us) next week. The only thing is, I think we're just doing this as friends. I want to ask her out though, so how can I do it?

    I want to ask her out face-to-face when I see her. What should I say? I want to say "Let's go out for dinner sometime" but I don't want her to think of it as just a friendly meetup.

    And I'm pretty sure she's single.

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    Default Re: How can I ask this girl out?

    Don't ask her like that. That's the typical AFC way of asking a girl out.

    Be confident & upbeat when you do it. But first, before you even think about asking her out on a "date", make sure you use the concert as an opportunity to flirt & start building attraction.

    By the way, a concert is a great place to work on that!
    All the energy & fun will have her in a positive & receptive state... and you can high-five, dance, bump around, hold her hand to guide her through the crowd... etc. (Don't wast this opportunity!)

    Make it known that you're interested in her as "more than a friend" right away... otherwise, if you wait too long you run a risk of being thrown in the "friend zone".

    Fast Forward: ---->
    After you build the attraction & use this concert opportunity wisely, here's an example of how you need to ask her out for a "DATE":

    "Hey, I'm gonna be going to XXXX & check it out on Saturday, because I've heard amazing things about it. You totally need to roll with me! It'll be a blast! I'll pick you up at 6:00!"

    OR

    "Have you ever been to XXXX? They have the best XXX ever!!! You SOOOO have to try it! I've been craving it like a mad-man lately, so I'm thinking this Friday around 7:00. Tell me you're in!! "

    This works much better because it shows confidence, decisiveness, and it's presented in a way that makes it sound fun, which is exactly what will get her attention & make her WANT to go!

    (I bet even YOU even thought it sounded like fun while you read that... right? heehee!)

    Compare those examples to "Let's go out for dinner sometime" - Which one is more enticing?

    Always present a potential "date" or get-together in a FUN & exciting way. After all, that's why people go on dates; to have fun! (Not to be bored silly for a few hours.)

    Anyway, that's what I'd recommend.


    Good luck too!!


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    Default Re: How can I ask this girl out?

    Simply put, don't ask for her opinion. You have a life and your time is valuable, make her feel as if she is receiving a gift by taking time out of your schedule to invite her somewhere. Don't get cocky about it, but ask her like this: "I'm going to xxx on xxx day. I normally like to do these things alone, but you're pretty cool. You in?

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    Default Re: How can I ask this girl out?

    you could always take a picture of you two randomly at the concert and use as ammo later down the road to remind her of the good time she had with you


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