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    Default How to pick up a bartender that "shut me down"

    Long story short...I have a weakness over cute bartenders.

    Last week as the bar was closing I approached an HB9 (Easily) bartender at a local bar and started chatting/flirting w/ her. She was into the convo and I was making her laugh (Awesome!)...Anyways , for some reason I asked her, "Are you allowed to wear heals?"...she said ya but she never would because she has to walk around a lot...so then I said, "That's a bummer cause it would accentuate your ass"...Why did I say this? It somehow worked on a girl I f-closed the week before and that's all I could think of at the time.

    Anyway, after that remark she surprisingly didn't shut me down but I could tell the convo got a bit more awkward...so I quickly changed the subject, got her laughing again, and all went well.

    THEN, I suggested we exchange numbers cause she seems like a really fun girl and she said, "I have a boyfriend"...so naturally I accessed my sh!t test arsenal and said, "That's great! He can make us breakfast tomorrow morning!"........... .FAIL

    She basically just said "hells no" w/ her body language.

    Questions:

    1) What should I have done differently? I'm thinking a more playful remark to the "I have a boyfriend" would have worked.

    2) I saw her last night and ordered drinks from her and everything seemed fine and not awkward...do you think I can try and re-game her?

    3) What should be my next moves?

    Thanks a ton guys!
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    Default Re: How to pick up a bartender that "shut me down"

    this worked for me. hopefully it helps my man

    http://www.puaforums.com/pua-openers...-approach.html


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