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    EdmondDonte is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Are these IoI, how should have I proceeded?

    I was sitting at a bar in Ohio, look up and lock eyes with a brunette sitting 2 seats down from me. She smirks and maintains eye contact, I immediately look down at my drink and don't say anything.

    Sometimes Ill be checking out at a store and the cashier will compliment my eyes. I usually just say thanks and walk out.


    I was raised by 6 women and nothing they have told me to do works.

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    Default Re: Are these IoI, how should have I proceeded?

    Hey,

    I would go or the three seconds rule: after her notorious ioi, I'd count three seconds to make my approach. I know you could feel Approach Anxiety but the best way to overtake it is to face it, you've nothing to lose, and the girl showed some interest.

    In case you know that you wouldnt know what to say in front of her, shoot a canned opener or an improvised opener to get her attention, followed by dynamics and a good conversation. It's key that you feel natural and comfortable with her, and not the other way around.

    You said you were raised by 6 women, that's awesome but I'm sure they have told you that you should be a nice guy and be cute with girls. With all due respect I think your approach should be different than this because women want a self assured guy with a strong mindset (not a boring manipulable man for example). Women that raise you would never say: go ahead be a bad boy and go out with many women.

    The main point here is having in mind that you're a confident man and she's opening you the door for you, so there is nothing to lose. Remember these scenarios: you could hit and get the girl or you could miss and learn experience. A good pilot is all about flight hours, so take the risks and go ahead.

    Cheers

    Walker

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    Default Re: Are these IoI, how should have I proceeded?

    Approach them as if your eyes were hypnotic rays of seduction - because that's what pretty eyes are on a man to a woman... srsly. Next time this happens, smile back, break eyecontact to return to whatever you're doing, conclude whatever you're doing, then approach. This will make you come off as more confident and self-efficient.

    As for advice from women - ignore it. Women know what they are "supposed to" want, but they rarely have an accurate understanding of what will turn them on - much less why.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    EdmondDonte is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Are these IoI, how should have I proceeded?

    Yea, it took me longer than id like to admit that just maybe i shouldn't be taking women advice. Approach her with hypnotic rays of seduction, i feel like im gonna look like an ass but ill try it tonight!

    Thanks for the advice!

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Are these IoI, how should have I proceeded?

    Talk to every girl you like even if they DON'T give you ioi's!!

    Be a man that's what women want. Also regarding bad boys - you don't so much have to be nasty but have the attitude you are the leader of a pack. It comes down to tribalism. This is why rock stars and football stars (apart from wealth) do so well with women. They are leaders of a successful 'tribe'. You need to shed the quilt club attitude you were raised with and be more masculine in endeavor which means acting on impulse, not letting opportunities slip away, being the observant hunter and being ascertive in what you want.

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    Tanktop is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Are these IoI, how should have I proceeded?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Talk to every girl you like even if they DON'T give you ioi's!!

    Be a man that's what women want. Also regarding bad boys - you don't so much have to be nasty but have the attitude you are the leader of a pack. It comes down to tribalism. This is why rock stars and football stars (apart from wealth) do so well with women. They are leaders of a successful 'tribe'. You need to shed the quilt club attitude you were raised with and be more masculine in endeavor which means acting on impulse, not letting opportunities slip away, being the observant hunter and being ascertive in what you want.
    i concur with white dragon on not having to be nasty. I have always had a vulgar sense of humor which can be a great laughing point but also my biggest enemy. I say get a feel for the girl.Women like boldness and admire men who take that leap to initiate


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